Lingering on Mary in the Rosary

Within this room built by the sacred word, the figure of Mary appears as the immediate content of the Rosary prayer.

She has been dear to Christian hearts from the start. Already the disciples of Jesus surrounded her with spe­cial love and respect. The reader becomes conscious of this in following the occasional but quite numerous passages in the Gospels and the Acts of the New Testa­ment that speak of her.

The Christian people have always loved Mary with a love especially reserved for her, and it was not a good omen when Christians thought of severing their bond to Mary in order to honor the Son.

Who is Mary? Let us say it as simply as it can possibly be said: she is the woman for whom Jesus Christ, the Son of God and our Redeemer, became the main pur­pose of life. This fact is as simple and at the same time as far beyond all human understanding as is the mystery of our Lord’s Incarnation.

There are two possibilities of greatness. One is to be great oneself: a creator, a hero, a herald, a man of special destiny. The other is to love such a great person; and this possibility seems of equal value. In order to comprehend the life of someone else, one’s own heart should measure up to the image of the beloved. What do we mean, then, when we say that Jesus Christ was the substance of Mary’s life?

Of course, we have to be on guard. The heart of man, even the most profound, can never bear the same rela­tion to Christ as it has to a loved fellow creature. The limits of the incomparable rise up here, because Christ, though our brother, still has the deepest roots of His being on the side of God. All that was just said about dimension and greatness becomes oblique, and must now be discarded. And yet the fact remains that Mary was His mother. Wherever the Gospel speaks of her, not only does she appear as the one who bore and reared the Savior Child, but she stands living, knowing, and loving in this holiest of spheres.

The lesson of the angel’s message alone should suf­fice for every one of the faithful who reads it aright; it is not the announcement that the divine decree was to be consummated in her, but the question of whether she agreed that it be so. This instant was an abyss before which one’s head reels, because here stood Mary in her freedom facing the very first decision on which all of salvation depended. But what does it mean when the question “Will you help the Savior’s coming?” coincides with the other question, “Will you become a mother?” What does it mean that she received the Son of God and the Savior; that she carried and bore Him? That she feared for His life and wandered into exile for Him? That He grew up beside her in the tranquillity of the home in Nazareth, then left her on His mission, while she, as the Gospel hints, followed Him with her love, standing, at the end, beneath the Cross? That she knew of the Resurrection and waited after the Ascension in the midst of the Apostles for the descent of the Holy Spirit whose power overshadowed her? That she contin­ued to live on in the care of the Apostle “who was loved by Jesus” and to whom He Himself entrusted her until her Son and Master called her?

From Romano Guardini’s The Rosary of Our Lady

Scripture says little about this, but for those who wish to understand, the texts are eloquent; all the more so because it is Mary’s own voice we hear. For where else should the disciples have learned about the mystery of the Incarnation, about the first happenings of Christ’s childhood, and the pilgrimage to Jerusalem? If we do not want to look upon the first chapters of the Gospels as legends (we have to know what we are doing in this case, for we are daring to decide which of the Gospels’ words are words of God and setting aside Revelation), we can only say that Mary’s recollections, her testimony, her whole life are the foundation of all accounts of Christ’s childhood. And they are not only the founda­tion; for how could she have lived with the Master for thirty years and not spoken about Him after His depar­ture? No one can gauge the effect of her narrative on the understanding of Christ and the spread of Christian teaching.

The course of this life contains nothing fictitious, nothing legendary. It is quite simple, quite real — but with what reality! Legends often sound pious and pro­found in meaning, often fanciful, and sometimes even foolish. Even when they are really devout, they can do harm. They tell wonderful tales, but often impair and weaken the meaning of something that is much more beautiful and devout, and much more wonderful than all legends — namely, reality.

The life of Mary, as the Gospel tells it, is as humanly true as it can possibly be, but in this human quality it is filled with a mystery of divine communion and love, the depth of which is unfathomable. The Rosary points in this direction.

Jesus is the substance of Mary’s life, just as the child is the lifeblood of its mother, for whom it is the one and all. But, at the same time, He is also her Redeemer, and that another child cannot be for its mother. Speaking of another child and mother in such a manner is like “making conversation”: as soon as the speech takes a serious turn, it borders on blasphemy. Not only was Mary’s existence as a human mother achieved in her relation to Jesus, but also her redemption. Becoming a mother, she became a Christian. By living with her Child, she lived with the God whose living revelation He is. Growing humanly along with the Child, as do all mothers who really love, releasing Him on the road of life with so much resignation and pain, she ripened in God’s divine grace and truth.

For this reason, Mary is not only a great Christian, one among a number of saints, but she is unique. No one is like her, because what happened to her happened to no other human being. Here lies the authentic root of all exaggeration about her. If people cannot be extrava­gant enough in their praises of Mary, and even say reckless and foolish things, they are still right in one respect: even though the means are faulty, they seek to express a fact, the tremendous depth of which must overwhelm everyone who realizes it. But exaggerations are useless and harmful, because the simpler the word expressing a truth, the more tremendous and at the same time the more deeply realized do the facts become.

It is Mary on whom the Rosary is centered in a focus ever new. This prayer means a lingering in the world of Mary, whose essence was Christ.

In this way, the Rosary is, in its deepest sense, a prayer of Christ. The first part of the Hail Mary ends with His name: “And blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.” After this name follow the so-called mysteries (for example, “Whom thou, O Virgin, didst conceive of the Holy Spirit,” “Whom thou didst bear with thee to Elizabeth,” “Who was born to thee in Bethlehem”). Every decade of the Rosary contains such a mystery.

The whole, as it is expressed in the chain of beads, includes five decades and thus forms a cycle of five mysteries. There are three such cycles. The first is the Joyful Rosary; its mysteries deal with the sweetly serene and yet overshadowed youth of Jesus. The second, the Sorrowful Rosary, comprises His Passion from the hour of Gethsemane to His death on the Cross. The third, the Glorious Rosary, deals with the glory of His Resur­rection and Ascension, the descent of the Holy Spirit, and Mary’s fulfillment.

We see how, in this prayer, the figure and life of Jesus occupies the foreground: not as He does in the Stations of the Cross, immediate and in itself, but through Mary, as the tenor of His life is seen and sensed by her, “keep­ing all these things carefully in her heart.”

The essence of the Rosary is a steady incitement to holy sympathy. If a person becomes very important to us, we are happy to meet someone who is attached to him. We see his image mirrored in another life and we see it anew. Our eyes meet two eyes that also love and see. Those eyes add their range of vision to ours, and our gaze may now go beyond the narrowness of our own ego and embrace the beloved being, previously seen only from one side. The joys that the other person experienced, and also the pains he suffered, become so many strings whose vibrations draw from our heart new notes, new understanding, and new responses.

It is intrinsic in the virtue of sympathy that the other person puts his life at our disposal, which enables us to see and to love not only with our own senses but also with his. Something of this sort, only on a higher plane, happens with the Rosary.

Editor’s note: This article is from a chapter in Guardini’s The Rosary of Our Lady, which is available from Sophia Institute Press. 

Romano Guardini


Romano Guardini (1885–1968) was ordained a priest in 1910. He was a professor at the University of Berlin until the Nazis expelled him in 1939. His sermons, books, popular classes, and his involvement in the post-war German Catholic Youth Movement won him worldwide acclaim. His works combine a keen thirst for God with a profound depth of thought and a delightful perfection of expression.

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  • dougpruner

    Guardini wrote, “the occasional but quite numerous passages in the Gospels and the Acts of the New Testa­ment that speak of her”
    What was his definition of “numerous”? She is of course mentioned in the stories of Jesus’ birth and his execution. Outside of that she is mentioned by name only in Acts 1:14 as one of the 120 in the Upper Room. Paul refers to Jesus as born “out of a woman”. (Gal 4:4) Peter mentions her not at all.

  • jessej

    Hi Doug,
    Mary permeates scripture . From Gen 3:15 to Rev 12:1 and the most important scene (John 19:27 )when Jesus was dying and had nothing left but the one representative of His Church and his mother and He gave them both away to each other!
    What a beautiful and perfect fulfillment of his preaching of giving away eveything and holding on to nothing but the Father!

    God bless Doug!

  • Nostromo

    The Wedding at Cana, is a transformative event in more ways than one. It also marks the beginning of Christ’s mission at the insistence of his mother.

  • dougpruner

    I do not find in the passage that Jesus acted “at the insistence of his mother”. Jesus was baptized and “got his start” earlier with his father’s approval from heaven and the sign of God’s spirit. (Lu 3:21 ff.) He was praying to his father at the time and we have a record of that prayer at Ps 40:8 ff. (Paul says so at Heb 10:5-9.) Mary was a fine wife and mother, and is now in heaven ready “to rule as kings over the earth” with her colleagues, (Rev 5:10) but she is not in charge of the work of the Son of God.
    To help us understand this we note that Luke says Jesus was “about 30 years of age” when he was baptized. That is the minimum age for the most responsible Levitical service under the Law, and is well above the age of majority in any society. “Yahweh spoke to Moses and said: ‘Take a census by clans and families of the Levites descended from Kohath: all the men between thirty and fifty years of age… These are the duties of the Kohathites: looking after those things that are especially holy.’ ” (Num 4) (It’s also the age of Joseph and David when they began their chief works.)
    Shouldn’t that make us grateful that Yahweh selected our Savior so carefully?
    What you are giving me is RCC dogma, not shared by others and not supported by scripture. “Scripture” by the way is sometimes called “the Bible we Catholics gave you.” If that’s the case, let’s use it, shall we?

  • dougpruner

    I don’t find that Jesus “had nothing left but the one representative of His Church” at his execution. There were a few others there, and his “church” can’t be said to have started while he was in the grave. Did you notice that not until some fifty days later his followers got the same sign of God’s spirit that Jesus got at his baptism? The 120 in that upper room (including Mary) were the Christian congregation at that time. Please note that this infusion of holy spirit also gave them the means to begin carrying out their leader’s command at Mt 28:19,.20. (Acts 2:1-12)
    We know that his foster father Joseph was dead then, and it was Jesus’ responsibility to put his mother under the care of (1) a male and (2) a fellow believer. John fulfilled this role, both as a Jew and an early Christian.. I see no reason to read anything else into the scene.

  • Nostromo

    He refers to His mother as “woman” for the first time for goading Him to do something about the problem at Cana, separating Himself from His earthly mother, and then performs his first miracle, the changing of water into wine. Two facts that make the event transformative with subsequent miracles to follow. He does not perform miracles before this event. I would call that the start of His mission at demonstrating that He is not of the earthly world, wouldn’t you?

  • Nostromo

    Did anyone claim He was “under His mother”?
    So what is your “expert” opinion on why He calls his mother “woman” in an almost annoyance provoken way?

  • Nostromo

    Thank you for a very long reply, much of which I’m well versed in, but I didn’t see anything wrt why Christ referred to His mother as “woman” at this point in His life? Remember, He is without sin, and has not broken one of the Decalogues though you likely would be guilty of that had you uttered it? Have you ever said that to your mother?
    “Behold your mother”, one of his last words, and they weren’t meant just for John.

  • Nostromo

    Nothing disagreeablel wrt to Edw. Goodspeed, or Lidell and Scott
    Somewhat a rhetorical question about Mary M. though.
    Yes 600 years after the events in question. Much closer than 1500. 1500 years of being in error on this issue and the Eucharist as central according to Protestants. But then sola scriptura never was “fitting’ accordng to scripture, the power to loose and bind is.
    Religion is always about sprituality, or an animating of emotion, that you are correct about.

  • Nostromo

    (not sure why your most recent post isn’t appearing here)
    You don’t know of Sola Scriptura as a Protestant doctrine.


    Judgement in recognizing allegory is also a very important quality when reading holy scripture, otherwise one may believe in the literal story of the Garden of Eden which incidently is packed with wisdom applicable to our era. And I am more than familiar with Church history, New Advent that I view daily, and the Catholic Encyclopeidia (a great source for History pre-1913 where you would learn about Luther’s proclamations).

  • jessej

    Well I believe John used the verbage “the deciple He loved” to “behold his mother” to be a reference to me personally. If you believe it to be an administrative task that he neglected till his last moment you are free to see it that way but I would find your God obtuse, negligent and a bore.