Worshipping God Means Sacrifice

I recently discovered the music of Rend Collective, a Christian Irish folk band. I’ve been devouring their music and videos online, and I told my spiritual director, “Ah…if only they were Catholic!”

Lest you think that I am anti-ecumenism, you should know that many of my good friends at my public high school were faithful Protestants. We listened to the same music. We occasionally broke out in theological debates in Calculus class. And I was inspired by their love for God.

So, in desiring Catholicism for not only the members of this band but also for others, I am not denigrating their fidelity to the Gospel. I’m wishing that they could experience the gift of the Eucharist.  

This debate – the value of conversion and belonging to the Church – came to the fore during the recent Amazon Synod. But the discussion of ecumenism is one that has long been going on in the Church. If Catholics believe that God does work through other denominations of Christianity and that non-Catholics do go to heaven – what is the point of wanting to convert people to Catholicism?

The Eucharist is the point.

Ecumenism Explained to Children

When I am driving around with my young daughters, I make a point of making the Sign of the Cross whenever we pass a Catholic Church, and saying, “Love you, Jesus!” while blowing him a kiss. My daughters do the same (and sometimes remind me to do it when I forget.) Inevitably, the toddler of the group will blow kisses at every Church we pass, even the non-Catholic ones. The older sisters will always chime in, “No, Zelie! Jesus isn’t in that Church!” And I always respond, “Well, he is in that Church. Those people love Jesus and pray to him. He is spiritually present there. But we can still pray for them to become Catholic because we love the Eucharist and we want everyone to get to have Jesus in the Eucharist.”

If we believe that the Eucharist is truly the Body and Blood of Christ – how could we not desire it for everyone we know? How could we not desire that they receive a foretaste of that heavenly union with Christ?

But the Eucharist is more than heavenly food – it is also a sacrifice. To be present at Mass is to be present at the foot of the cross.

Praise and Worship vs. Worship

Several of my favorite bloggers, writers, and musicians are not Catholic (although most are Christian, too). Whether I am watching one of their Insta-stories, YouTube videos, or an interview, I am always struck by the depth of their love of and desire for Christ. Then, they begin to talk about worship, and it makes my heart ache for them.

This is not true for all non-Catholic Christians, but for those whose witness I have been watching, worship of God consists mainly in heartfelt prayer and song. Watching them pray and sing is beautiful and heartfelt. It is a challenge to me, as a fellow Christian, to pray with the same fervent devotion.

But, as I was listening to a recent episode of my favorite podcast , their discussion of worship reminded me of what right worship looks like. (Note that “right worship” is a theological term and is not contrasted with “wrong worship” but rather is meant to indicate the fullness of the worship that God desires from his people.) Worship is not just praising God, singing, or praying with devotion. Worship is meant to be sacrifice.

When we look to the Old Testament, we see how God requires sacrifice from the Israelites as a form of worship pleasing to him. Even earlier than Israel, we see the value of sacrifice in worship in the story of Cain and Abel. Both presented an offering to God, but only Abel presented a sacrifice – the choicest portion of what he possessed. Abraham’s willingness to sacrifice Isaac is pleasing (even though Isaac ends up being spared) because it shows that he chooses to place worship of God above his own lesser desires, even a desire as great at the desire for a son.

And, of course, all these sacrifices point to the final, most perfect sacrifice. Christ’s sacrifice on the cross was one of perfect love. In its perfection, it did away with any need for further sacrifices. It was the perfect worship of the Father.

It is this sacrifice that is made present again at every Mass. Jesus isn’t sacrificed repeatedly, but his one, perfect sacrifice is made present here and now. When we are at Mass, we are literally and mysteriously standing at the foot of the cross of Christ. It isn’t a new sacrifice, but the same sacrifice offered 2000 years ago.

Although song and prayer can certainly be a part of praising and worshiping God, we don’t need to create a way to worship. Christ has already given us the most perfect form of worship. To worship God, no sacrifice or offering of ours is great enough. And so, all we can do is unite our offerings to Christ’s on the altar. In joining our sacrifices and sufferings to his at every Mass, we can offer God true worship.

Most beautifully — we don’t offer that worship alone. In watching an interview with one Christian musician, he was talking about how his church community desired to have Christ in their midst and believe that he is in their midst. I, too, believe that Christ is in their midst spiritually.

But what I desire is for all Christians to one day be united, partaking in the great sacrifice of Christ on the altar, the most perfect act of worship. It is not perfect because of our own qualifications or talents. It is perfect because all we are doing is presenting to the Father the perfect sacrifice of his Son.

What a gift that perfect worship is.

Photo by K. Mitch Hodge on Unsplash


Michele Chronister is a wife, and mother to three little girls and one little one in heaven. She received her BA and MA in theology from the University of Notre Dame (’09 and ’11). She is the author of a number of books, including Handbook for Adaptive Catechesis, the co-author of Faith Beginnings – Family Nurturing from Birth Through Preschool, editor of the book Rosaries Aren't Just for Teething, as well as an assortment of Catholic children's books. In addition to writing, she also homeschools her daughters, and is the social media manager for the Office of Natural Family Planning in the Archdiocese of St. Louis. When her oldest was a baby, she realized that their family life had taken on a sort of monastic rhythm – eat, pray, play, sleep. Prompted by this, she started the blog My Domestic Monastery (www.mydomesticmonastery.com), where she shares inspiration for families wanting to grow in holiness.

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