Making Noise, Not Arguments

In my work as a social conservative, I have been puzzled by some of the rhetorical strategies of my opponents. Sometimes I feel my head spinning, as if I have been going around in circles, with no obvious conclusion in sight. I have been seeking the key to understanding them, a Rosetta Stone that will allow me to translate what otherwise appears to be mere hieroglyphics.

I think I am finally getting a handle on it. The lifestyle left doesn’t actually make arguments. They just make noise.

Over at Think Progress, there is a case in point, involving Yours Truly.

The occasion for this particular episode is my response to being included in the GLAAD “Commentator Accountability Project.” Evidently, the folks at GLAAD feel a need to inform the media that I am not worthy of being interviewed. In response, I wrote an article entitled, “Why Opposing the Gay Lobby is Not Anti-Gay.” The folks over at Think Progress came up with this headline “NOM: Opposing Gay Rights Doesn’t Make Someone Anti-Gay.”

Do you see what they have done? They have slipped in an unstated assumption that the “gay lobby” = “gay rights.” Anyone who disagrees with the gay lobby automatically, always and everywhere, opposes gay rights. Put it another way: they have turned an important and debatable question into an unquestioned assumption.

Actually, they have papered over a whole series of questions: what is marriage? What is the social purpose and meaning of marriage? What is equality? What is the context of equality in this particular situation: who is being made equal to whom, for what purpose and in what context? Will there be any down-side to redefining marriage?

They do not answer these questions. They assume them away by asserting that “marriage equality” is a slam-dunk, open and shut civil rights issue. They change the subject to me and my character. As long as the topic is me and whether I am a big meanie, they don’t have to refute my arguments, or even make any arguments of their own.

The subject of my original article in The Blaze was my claim that removing the gender requirement from marriage would result in the state insisting that mothers and fathers are interchangeable. I believe that this will impact men and women differently, and that the net result will be the further marginalization of fathers from the family.

I still believe that to be true. I still believe it will be a very bad thing for society. I am not ashamed of this belief, in spite of GLAAD’s rather ham-handed attempt to shame me about it.

The most telling point though is that Think Progress did not even bring up the question of whether redefining marriage will marginalize fathers from the family. They just changed the subject.

“The war against women” is another example. The so-called “feminists” presume to speak for the entire female sex. Anyone who disagrees with their preferred policies is making war against women. The HHS mandate requiring every employer to provide contraception, sterilization and abortion-inducing drugs is, in their fantasy world, part of the “war against women”.

Do you see the assumptions they have slipped in? Every woman values zero-cost contraception more than anything else. No woman anywhere in America has the slightest moral qualms about abortion-inducing drugs. No woman in America has any loyalty to any religious body. There are no social conservative women.

Ahem. Most women are surviving just fine paying for their own contraception or using natural methods that don’t cost anything. Many women are deeply troubled by abortion-inducing drugs. Evidently the self-proclaimed champions of the female sex have not seen the inside of a church in a long time, since many, many congregations are dominated by women. And, by the way, the social conservative movement is filled with women, including the pro-life movement, the abstinence education movement, and the movement to popularize natural family planning.

Once again, the lifestyle left has turned a whole series of important questions into assumptions: pregnancy is an illness that ought to be prevented; women want sex to be a sterile recreational activity, and religion is unimportant to women.

This is the Rosetta Stone: the point of the racket from the lifestyle left is to distract the reader or listener from the substance of the discussion. Keep changing the subject so no one has a clear picture of what is at stake in the argument. Keep making nasty-sounding attacks on people, so that a) no one wants to get involved in an argument with the lifestyle left, be they feminists or gays, b) people become willing to concede whatever the lifestyle left is asking for, just to make the annoying clamor go away, and c) people will start to shun the victims of the attack, thinking that they must be at fault somehow for bringing this on themselves.

So think of this tactic as a noise-bomb. Once the noise starts, you are deafened and can’t think straight. You’ve got to be prepared with ear protectors. Or think of it as a smoke bomb. Once your eyes are burning, it is too late: you can’t see and you are stumbling around in the dark. The only defense is to put on your goggles as fast as possible.

Recognizing this tactic quickly is the equivalent of putting on your ear protectors or your goggles. Once you are on the look-out, you will see beyond any shadow of a doubt that this change-the-subject strategy is very common. The entire lifestyle left uses it, not only the gay left, but radical feminists, the pro-abortion crowd, the whole lot of them.

Forewarned is forearmed: once you can identify the diversionary tactic, you will not be victimized by it anymore.



Jennifer Morse


Jennifer Roback Morse, Ph.D. is the Founding President of the Ruth Institute, an educational organization promoting lifelong married love to college students and young adults. She thanks Mr. Austin Muck, her 2011 Blackstone Legal Fellowship intern, for his assistance with the legal research on "In re M.C."

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  • JAC

    While I do not agree with the HHS and think the whole thing should be thrown out, I do have one question, why does it discriminate against other forms of birth control?  As we all know medical insurance covers many things, for instance crutches, wheel chairs and physical therapy.  Does the HHS cover Thermometers, NFP training classes and other Catholic approved family planning?  Just as the force a Catholic OB/GYN to represent all birth control options, should we not ask them to do the same here?
    Again, I agree with the Catholic bishops.  While I am being force by the minority to take into account their views, isn’t it equality for them to do the same with my views?

  • jmm483

    I cannot recall a time since 1992 when Ross Perot attempted to educate America on the dangers of the deficit that reasoned discussion and opinions were not drowned out by noise.  Shouting loudly has replaced thinking!

  • dscasl

    The diversionary tactic isn’t used only by the “lifestyle left.” but by proponents of other left-wing views as well. I have never had a discussion with a progressive about any issue (the Crusades, the Inquisition, Galileo, etc.) that didn’t involve the other party changing the focus of their argument after any point I make. One does have to be prepared, and stay focused as a laser beam!

  • Yblegen

    I don’t think the deaf of heart and mind  can hear anything reasonable since they have plugged up their heart to any discussion regarding the TRUTH.  Such a discussion, done with an open mind, would be very dangerous to them.

    Thanks for the warning.

  • Annamarie53

     I could not agree with Dr. Morse more!  I, too, have found that posting conservative think pieces the loud left doesn’t bother to read doesn’t seem to provoke the silly name calling and ridiculous accusations against me and my character as does a cartoon or quip that an 8th grader could understand.  Then I am called a big meanie, that I assume someone who does not agree with me must mean I am calling them stupid, and that my “hateful” comments will only net me “bad karma.”  Fortunately, I am not of the Hindu faith, so the whole “karma” thing didn’t cause me to lose a single wink of sleep.
    the tactic of trying to get loud and insulting instead of participating in political and/or religious debate is too much for their little minds.  You see, where the life of my nation, children, and Church are concerned, I don’t cower easily.
    Get ready, you “lifestyle” (how I hate that word!) Nazis.  Your attempts to roll your “tanks” over us of conservative belief will not be allowed to be a rerun of Germany after WWI this time.
    Dear Lord, protect us and give us strength.  Amen.

  • a2native

    Thank you for posting this.  I can so relate to this as I am experiencing these very tactics with my adult daughter and her husband.  I will be more discerning in our next discussion as I look for these distracting techniques and try to refocus discussion to the real issues at hand.