A Mascara-Worthy Candidate

I only wear mascara for special occasions: Easter, Christmas, Sunday Mass, an evening out with hubby, lunch with friends. It isn’t a daily, automatic thing for me.

So when I was getting ready to attend the Paul Ryan rally in our area this past week, I thought it odd that my instinct was to put on mascara. This was especially unusual because there I was in jeans and a Romney-Ryan t-shirt—not “mascara worthy” clothes in my mind.

Don’t get me wrong. I’m happily married so I wasn’t planning on flirting with Paul Ryan when I met him. Mostly I was assuming, though, that I would get to meet him. I wanted to let him know that I have been praying the Rosary for the Romney-Ryan ticket and was excited to imagine such a capable team in the White House. My oldest son is a numbers guy (an actuary) and I have an affinity towards people who can “do the math.” I like the idea of where our country will be heading should the Romney-Ryan team be victorious this November.

I had so much to share with Paul that evening.

So, imagine my surprise when it took almost two hours to get into the arena and then it was standing room only! I realized that I had been duped by the media.

Media bias is, as far as I’m concerned, as obvious as gravity. It is there and I know it. I don’t need to hem and holler about it. It is frustrating and even nauseating, but I’m old enough and smart enough to know of its existence. I have hope despite it.

And yet I had been duped.

As I stood in the packed auditorium screaming chants and cracking up at the other great t-shirts I saw (my favorite: I’d rather vote for a Mormon than a moron) I had to laugh at myself for thinking I would meet Paul Ryan. I realized that in applying that mascara, I believed all the liberal bias: I didn’t think anyone liked Paul Ryan but me. Well, maybe me and a few other middle-aged women. I didn’t imagine anyone in the great state of Michigan was supporting the Romney-Ryan ticket. I figured there would be about 30 or 40 of us huddled together sharing stories and building one another up.


That is what I have come to believe this election season: there are only a handful of us who are worried about abortion and debt and Medicare and Obamacare and mismanagement of funds and overspending and dependence on foreign oil. And those few of us were going to get together and strategize and become fast friends at the Paul Ryan event last Monday. We were going to bolster Paul up and share with him how proud we are of what he is attempting to do and let him know we trust him and are behind him.

Yep, me and 7,000 other people must have had the same idea that cold and blustery night that we waited in line for hours to hear this intelligent, articulate man speak. As it turns out, I didn’t need to wear my mascara but I’m glad I did. Paul Ryan really is “mascara worthy.”

Cheryl Dickow


Cheryl Dickow is a Catholic wife, mother, author and speaker. Cheryl’s newest book is Wrapped Up: God’s Ten Gifts for Womenwhich is co-authored with Teresa Tomeo and is published by Servant (a division of Franciscan Media); there is also a companion journal that accompanies the book and an audio version intended for women’s studies or for individual reflection. Cheryl’s titles also include the woman’s inspirational fiction book Elizabeth: A Holy Land Pilgrimage. Elizabeth is available in paperback or Kindle format. Her company is Bezalel Books where her goal is to publish great Catholic books for families and classrooms that entertain while uplifting the Catholic faith and is located at www.BezalelBooks.com. To invite Cheryl to speak at your event, write her at Cheryl@BezalelBooks.com.

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  • Debbie

    We were there, too, and felt the same surge of hope as we saw the thousands of people standing in the cold waiting to see Paul Ryan, whom we clearly all admire! It was a great event…and showed us that even in the blue state of Michigan, Romney/Ryan could win! We must keep praying!!

  • Deacon Tom

    Hope is one of the three Theological Virtues. Theological means it is God-given. And so we hope and trust that in His governance, we will see an answer to the great concerns you raised in your reflection. Blessings. dt.
    ps: I’ve never thought there were such specific reasons for mascara. LOL

  • Terri K

    I had a very similar experience on Chick-Fil-A Appreciation Day in August. We all need to VOTE!!!

  • chaco

    The masses could hardly believe it when the Berlin Wall came down also. The devil & its henchmen howl with sinister glee when they can make us think that evil is winning. I relate totally to your surprise at how well the Holy Spirit is doing at awakening consciences. Our valient leader JP II has led us with his battle cry; “FEAR NOT”. Our Lady promised that Her Immaculate Heart *WILL* triumph as we “console Her Heart”. [“Rejoice Queen Mother, Your Son has gone into the depths of darkness & illumined it with the VICTORY of DIVINE MERCY. It has penetrated the hardness of our selfish vanity & softened our Hearts into praise & thanks for God (who longs to share His GLORIOUS LOVE with us).]