DAILY DEVOTIONS, LIFELONG FAITH

Where Are the Other Nine? The Cross of Ingratitude

24 Jul 2026

From Image to Icon, Escaping the Temptation of the Idol

A recent Sunday Collect beautifully summarizes one of the deepest challenges of the Christian life:

โ€œListen, O God, to our prayers, and grant that, by imitating the Passion of your Son, we may bear our daily cross with serene courage. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.โ€ โ€” Collect, Fourteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Most of us immediately think of illness, persecution, or physical suffering when we hear the words โ€œdaily cross.โ€ Yet one of the most hidden crosses is the experience of ingratitude. Parents sacrifice for children who later forget. Priests and religious pour themselves out for their people only to be criticized or ignored. Teachers dedicate themselves to their students, who rarely look back. Friends give generously only to discover that their kindness has become expected rather than appreciated.

Our Lord Himself experienced this sorrow. After healing ten lepers, He asked, โ€œWere not ten cleansed? Where are the nine? Was no one found to return and give praise to God except this foreigner?โ€ (Lk. 17:17โ€“18). Christ noticed their ingratitude, yet He did not regret His mercy. He did not heal only those whom He knew would return. Love remained love, even when it was not acknowledged.

Indeed, He teaches that generosity is especially pure when directed toward those who cannot repay us: โ€œWhen you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind; blessed indeed will you be because of their inability to repay youโ€ (Lk. 14:13โ€“14). Likewise, in praising the poor widow, He teaches that it is greater to give from oneโ€™s poverty than merely from oneโ€™s abundance, for โ€œshe, from her poverty, has contributed all she hadโ€ (Mk. 12:43โ€“44; cf. Lk. 21:1โ€“4).

The Gospel invites us to examine not only the hearts of the nine lepers but our own. Why do I serve others? Why do I give myself away? The Christian tradition offers a profound path from Image to icon, while warning us against the perennial temptation of the idol.

Every human person is created in the image and likeness of God (Gen. 1:26โ€“27). The image is not something we create; it is God’s gift. Every human being, regardless of weakness, sin, or gratitude, bears this divine imprint and therefore possesses an inviolable dignity worthy of love.

Yet the image, by itself, requires interpretation. Left to itself, it can be misunderstood or reduced to mere appearance. Just as Sacred Scripture reveals the invisible mystery of Christ through words, the sacred icon reveals the same mystery through visible form. For this reason, the Christian East has long called the icon “the Gospel written in color.” The Word gives meaning to the image, and the image makes the Word visible. The icon, therefore, is not simply religious art; it is theology made visible.

Separated from the Word, however, the image becomes opaque and eventually susceptible to idolatry. As Giovanni Sartori argued so perceptively in his 1997 classic Homo Videns, modern culture increasingly allows images to eclipse the Word. Once images no longer point beyond themselves to truth, they become objects of manipulation, sentiment, entertainment, and consumption. The image ceases to be an icon and begins to function as an idol.

That is precisely the difference between an icon and an idol. An icon is transparent. It never terminates in itself but directs our gaze beyond itself to God. An idol does precisely the opposite. It absorbs our attention and becomes an end in itself, turning our hearts away from the Creator toward some created good.

Gratitude is one such created good. It is entirely natural to hope that those whom we help will acknowledge the gift they have received. A simple โ€œthank youโ€ is an act of justice and strengthens the bonds of charity, and it is good manners and naturally expected. Yet if I begin to need appreciation in order to persevere in charity, gratitude itself can become an idol. Instead of loving the image of God present in the other person, I begin seeking something for myself. My service ceases to be iconographicโ€”transparent to Godโ€”and becomes self-referential.

The Cross purifies precisely this temptation. Christ loved every person as the image of His Father. He healed the ten lepers, even though only one returned. His charity was never dependent upon applause, recognition, or gratitude. It remained wholly directed toward the glory of the Father and the salvation of souls.

This same freedom is beautifully illustrated in the life of St. Teresa of Calcutta. She served Christ in the poorest of the poor, not because they thanked her or could ever repay her, but because she recognized in each person the face of Christ. Her charity was rooted not in human recognition but in divine love.

Perhaps, then, the cross of ingratitude is one of the Lord’s most subtle forms of purification. He allows us to experience the disappointment of unreturned love so that our charity may become more like His: free, generous, and rooted entirely in the Father (cf. Lk. 6:32โ€“36; Jn. 5:19, 30; 15:9โ€“13). After all, He is โ€œthe image of the invisible Godโ€ (Col. 1:15; cf. Heb. 1:3), the Son whom Nathanael recognizes as โ€œthe Son of Godโ€ and โ€œthe King of Israelโ€ (Jn. 1:49). As Jesus later tells Philip, โ€œWhoever has seen me has seen the Fatherโ€ (Jn. 14:9). Christ is the true Image of the Father.

When we bear that cross of ingratitude with serene courage, we discover a profound freedom. We no longer love because others deserve it or because they will thank us. We love because they bear the image of God. We become icons whose lives point beyond ourselves to Christ, refusing to make even legitimate human gratitude into an idol that displaces God as the source of our joy. In fact, St. Paul reminds us: โ€œWhatever you do, do from the heart, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward; you are serving the Lord Christโ€ (Col. 3:23โ€“24).

The daily cross is not only the experience of suffering. Sometimes it consists in loving without being thanked, and this is precisely how Christ has loved us. When our charity no longer depends upon the gratitude of others, our lives become true icons of Christ Himself, whose love reveals the Father and does not seek its own reward.

Such purification is itself a grace. Left to our fallen nature, we are incapable of this freedom of love. Yet grace works within us like a sculptorโ€™s chisel, gradually removing what is disordered and self-seeking, so that the Image of Christ may appear more clearly in us.


Image from Wikimedia Commons

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Fr. Francesco Giordano, STD is Director of Human Life Internationalโ€™s Rome Office and a diocesan priest and professor in Rome, Italy, currently teaching at both the Angelicum and The Catholic University of America. He publishes regularly at Human Life International and appears on Vita Umana Internazionale YouTube channel.

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