When Things Are Bent



Take sexual desire for instance. It was created by God to draw together a man and woman in committed, covenant love that issues in new life. As such, sexual desire is clearly a great good. But when it is twisted at the instigation of the “Bent One,” it becomes lust — the urge for sterile self-gratification that is willing to trample upon the dignity of another, of many others, to satisfy an itch.

The same holds true for economic drive. Nowhere in the Bible do we see praise for laziness or indigence. Man and woman are given responsibility to care for the garden even before sin enters into the story. Work is holy, and ought to be productive (John Paul II’s theology of work is as amazing as his theology of the body). Enjoying the fruit of our labor, as well as sharing it with others, are some of the great blessings of human life.

Yet when the drive to work and earn money is twisted, the legitimate pleasure intended by God vanishes and bondage ensues. The workaholic can’t get off the treadmill to enjoy the fruit of his labor. He anxiously allows work to become compulsive, eating away at every area of his life. Then we have the greedy of this world who hoard their treasure, not enjoying it themselves and not sharing it with others. Instead, money becomes a substitute for God (that, by the way, is the definition of an idol). The greedy seek their identity and ultimate security in money. This is what we see in the rich man of Luke 12. His problem is not that he is excited about a bumper harvest, but that he succumbs to the illusion that this wealth means security. He puts his trust in his warehouses and, of course, they let him down.

First Timothy 6:10 teaches us that the love of money is the root of all evil. I’ve always found St. Augustine’s definition of the love of money to be very enlightening. He points out that the wrong kind of love is not restricted to money. Whenever a created thing becomes no longer a means to love God but an end it itself, then you have a “love” that is idolatry. Do you “love” the idea of finding the perfect mate? Having a better love life within marriage? Having a child? Getting a job? Winning an athletic championship? Getting a college degree? Flourishing in business? The desire for all these things can be good indeed. The avid pursuit of each of these things can actually be a duty depending on one’s state of life.

The question, though, is whether these desires and achievements are stepping stones on the road to God or are disastrous detours. Ultimately, a gut check is needed. Are we most intent on things below or on things above (Col 3)? We should be passionate about many things below — but is our zeal for health, love, kids, education, job, financial security, etc. truly a function of our zeal for loving God and doing His will? Where do we seek our ultimate satisfaction and security? In these temporal things (even people) that pass away, or in God who is forever? What do we look forward to more, our next promotion or heaven? The great Catholic tradition of a nightly examination of conscience helps us ask such questions daily and keeps us from getting off track.

If you haven’t noticed, it does not take us much to drift off track. It’s been that way ever since that first fateful conversation in the Garden between our first parents and the Bent One.

Dr. D'Ambrosio studied under Avery Cardinal Dulles for his Ph.D. in historical theology and taught for many years at the University of Dallas. He appears weekly on radio and TV reaching six continents and his books, tapes, videos, and CDs are internationally distributed. Information on his free resources, talks, CDs, videos and books is available on his website, www.dritaly.com.

For Dr. D'Ambrosio’s resources on spiritual growth and the Christian lifestyle, visit www.crossroadsinitiative.com or call 1.800.803.0118.

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Dr. Marcellino D’Ambrosio writes from Texas. For info on his resources and pilgrimages to Rome and the Holy Land, visit www.crossroadsinitiative.com or call 800.803.0118.

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