What does it mean to be a real man? What does it mean to be a Holy man? What does it mean to be a man of God? These are all good questions, and like many good questions, they do not have simple answers. Today's Catholic Man Channel article and future articles will try to provide insights into each of these questions. The definition below of "A Real Man" comes from the Diocese of Memphis NFP Center (phone 901-373-1285). Used with permission.
A Real Man
A Real Man…
Puts his faith in God — not in himself
Knows he is a child of God
Understands his purpose in life
Is obedient to God's will.
A Real Man…
Respects himself and other people
Has strength of character as well as body
Behaves with dignity
Accepts responsibility for his actions
Thinks before he acts
Takes pride in his work.
A Real Man…
Is unselfish and generous
Is honest and trustworthy
Is honorable and dependable
Is giving and forgiving
Is thoughtful and sensitive
Is tender and romantic
Is unafraid to be himself.
A Real Man…
Practices self discipline
Controls his temper and passions
Controls his thoughts and desires
Knows right from wrong
Walks away from temptation
Has a strong value system
Stands up for his beliefs.
A Real Man…
Is willing to love sacrificially
Seeks the good of others first
Makes a commitment and keeps it
Protects his wife and family
Knows his body is a temple of the Holy Spirit
Never uses another person.
A Real Man…
Loves God above all things
Trusts God and obeys Him
Leads his family in prayer
Is happy and at peace.
A Real Man…
Is a living witness to God's love.
Questions for Reflection/Discussion by Catholic Men
1. How does the definition of a real man in this article compare with your own understanding of a real man?
2. Which of the characteristics of a real man listed in this article do you agree with? How do you assess yourself against these characteristics? What steps can you take to improve this assessment?
3. Which of the characteristics of a real man listed in this article do you disagree with? Why?
