We often discuss who might be the best athletes, the best artists, the best writers, the best musicians; also, it must be said, there are the best of mothers. By far—and in a class by herself—the Blessed Virgin Mary was, is and always will be, the best of all mothers.
This being said, mothers should recognize the fact that Mary is the best of all mothers and contemplate Mary’s words, actions, gestures, looks, intentions and life to become better and better mothers.
For our great consolation, Mary is the Mother of God and she is the Mother of the Church, but also Mary is our dearest Mother! Let us try to please Mary, our Mother and the many mothers in the world will make huge strides in becoming better mothers all the days of their lives!
Below we will present ten different ways that we can show Mother Mary our great love for her and, through her most powerful intercession, she will attain for us the most choice graces to help us become the saints that we are called to be, and many of us as mothers.
1. Talk to Her
We have to get into the habit of talking to Mary, our dearest Mother, very often. To confide in her, speak to her from our heart, love her, and entrust all of our life to her is most pleasing to her, as well as to her Son Jesus, the Son of God and the Son of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Mary is our model, our guide, our friend and our dearest of Mothers. She loves us so much and she desires to have frequent conversations with us.
Let us start today! Good friends think about each other and talk frequently! Mary is our Mother, but she is also our friend and confidant.
2. Start Your Day With Mary
Upon waking up every morning, our first action should be that of prayer, and what prayer? Why not start your day by giving yourself totally to Jesus, in all you say, do and think, through the Immaculate Heart of Mary? Give to Jesus through Mary your eyes, your ears, your mind, your heart, your body and even your intentions—in a word, give everything to Jesus through Mother Mary. How important it is to start our day well through the Heart of Mary!
If you like, you can pray the Consecration to Mary Prayer below. If you don’t have a brown scapular, it would be good to purchase one and wear Our Lady’s scapular as a sign that you belong to her and are under her protection! Wear it at all times, except in the shower.
Mary, my Queen and my Mother, I give myself entirely to you. To show my devotion to you, I consecrate to you this day my eyes, my ears, my mouth, my whole being without reserve. As I am your own, dear Mother, keep me and guard me as your property and possession. Amen.
3. Tell Mother Mary You Love Her
A Mother never gets tired of hearing her child say: “Mom, I really love you; you are the greatest!” The temptation might be to say the following: “She already knows it, why tell her something that she already knows?” True, a good Mother most likely already knows it. However, she still loves to hear the words. By saying: “Mom, I really love you”, the heart of your mother will leap with joy.
The same must be said about Our Blessed Mother. In the simplest of words when we say: “Mother Mary, I love you”, then Mary, the Mother of God, experiences great joy in her most pure and Immaculate Heart. Therefore, throughout the day, let us remember to say: “Mother Mary, I love you!”
4. Walk With Her
There is a well-known song in both Spanish and Italian dedicated to Mary related to this topic with the title: Santa Maria del Camino—meaning, “Our Lady of the Way”. Therefore, when we travel, and it can be a short trip or a very long one, we should invite Mother Mary to come along with us. She is a good traveling companion and can protect us from many dangers in our travels, from perils, both physical and moral. How many accidents, physical and moral, have surely been prevented by traveling with Mary—Santa Maria del Camino!
5. Imitate Mary
If we know someone and have a deep respect for them, that often leads to imitation, and imitation to following, and following to a deep love for that person. Saint Louis de Montfort highlights the ten principal virtues of Mary that we should strive to imitate: her deep humility, lively faith, blind obedience, unceasing prayer, constant self-denial, surpassing purity, ardent love, heroic patience, angelic kindness, and heavenly wisdom. (True Devotion to Mary, St. Louis de Montfort #108)
6. Trust and Entrust to Mary
If we truly have confidence in a person, then we can entrust our cares to that person, knowing that this special person will care for us and protect us. Consider this, God the Father entrusted His only begotten Son to the care of Mary. Therefore, we can entrust our lives totally to the care of Mary, our dearest and most loving Mother. “Never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection was left unaided.” (The Memorare, St. Bernard)
7. Tell Mary of Your Sorrows and Failures
We could be tempted by the enemy, the devil, who truly hates Mary, to feel inhibited in telling Mother Mary our sorrows and deep sufferings. The contrary should be the case! The best of mothers, Mary knows very clearly that when a child is hurt and wounded, that is when the child needs the most tender love and care. So it should be with us!
When the days seem to be cloudy, bleak, gloomy and downright depressing in the depths of our soul, it is then that we really need to open up and talk to Mary our Mother. Mary is both a refuge for sinners and health of the sick—two titles for Mary in her famous Litanies!
8. Call Upon Mary When Tempted
Our life is a constant battle; we are soldiers of both Jesus and Mother Mary. That means we are on a constant battle-ground. Our enemies are three: the devil, the flesh, and the world. Aware of this intense reality of spiritual combat, we should call upon the Holy Name of Mary in the midst of the battle and the victory will be ours!
The famous Battle of Lepanto proved a striking victory through invoking Mary and the recitation of the most Holy Rosary, at the insistence of Pope Saint Pius V. May we entrust our battles to Mary, who is more powerful than a whole army in battle array! The mere name of Mary causes terror and fear in all of hell!
9. Promote Love for Mary As Mother
If indeed we have truly experienced the love, care, and tenderness of Mary in our daily lives, then undoubtedly we will want to make Mother Mary known far and wide. Mary is not loved and honored due to one principal reason: she is not known! How can she be made known? In many ways! Encourage the reading of good books on Mary like The Glories of Mary by St. Alphonsus Liguori, True Devotion to Mary by St. Louis de Montfort, and Mater Redemptoris and the Blessed Virgin Mary and the Rosary both by Pope Saint John Paul II.
Encourage recitation of the Holy Rosary and praying it daily, give out Rosaries with pamphlets on how to pray the Rosary, and finally, encourage the wearing of the Brown Scapular of Our Lady of Mount Carmel.
10. Die in the Arms of Mary
The most important moment in our life is the moment that we die. This moment will determine for all eternity, our eternal destiny—either heaven or hell. Why not prepare to die in grace, to die a holy death, at least 50 times a day? How, you might ask? Simply by praying the most Holy Rosary daily. Every time we pray the Hail Mary, we are preparing ourselves for a holy and happy death with these words: Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.
Therefore, let us rejoice with the keen awareness that we all have a heavenly Mother, Mary the Mother of God, the Mother of the Church, and our dear Mother. She knows us, cares for us, protects us, but especially, she loves us! Indeed, in the midst of the trials, struggles, and intense battles of life let us find our refuge in the Immaculate Heart of Mary and the Sacred Heart of Jesus!