need a job to be able to have a good family

hey guys just wondering if it it was okay to ask for help when I need a job to be able to actually adopt kids…my wife wants several and i  know that this costs a lot i am sending this through my wifes log in so please let me know if there is a way to adopt children ….several children without all the up front money…I just want her to be happy for i cant seem to provide her children that she wants..please pray for us …thanks