DAILY DEVOTIONS, LIFELONG FAITH

Mary and Our Experience of the Cross

07 Apr 2023

We can speak of redemption in two ways: objectively and subjectively. Objectively, our redemption is the work of Christ alone. Only Jesus, the God-Man, could offer a spotless sacrifice of obedient love to the Father and atone for the sins of our fallen race. Subjective redemption โ€“ or how Christโ€™s redemptive work is applied to individual souls โ€“ is the work of both Christ and the Church.  It sounds difficult to believe, but that is literally the gospel truth. Jesus entrusted the proclamation of the Gospel to us, His Church: โ€œGo into all the world and preach the gospel . . . He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemnedโ€ (Mk 16:15-16); โ€œThe harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few; pray therefore the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvestโ€ (Mt 9:37-38). This truth caused Paul to exclaim, โ€œHow are they to believe in him of whom they have never heard? And how are they to believe without a preacher?โ€ (Rom 10:14). Jesus brings about the subjective work of redemption through the apostolic labor of His Church. In His hand, we are instruments of salvation for others (1 Cor 7:13-16; 1 Pt 3:1โ€“2; 2 Cor 5:20; 1 Tm 4:16; Jude 22โ€“23 ).[1] Perhaps even harder to believe is the truth that Jesus uses our sufferings to bring this about. It is a supernatural reality known as redemptive suffering, and by seeing Christโ€™s passion in connection with His taking flesh in the Blessed Virgin Mary, we come to a deeper understanding of its truth.

From the beginning of her motherhood, Mary understood that Christโ€™s sufferings would be hers as well. When Jesus was only forty days old, she heard Simeon prophesy that Jesus would be a sign of contradiction โ€“ and her own soul pierced with a sword โ€“ so that the thoughts out of many hearts would be revealed (Luke 2:34-35). The suffering came upon her and Jesus quickly enough when they fled for their lives to Egypt (Mt 2:13-15). It waxed and waned throughout the next three decades until it reached its apex at the Cross. Scripture says that Jesus โ€œlearned obedience through what he sufferedโ€ (Heb 5:8); and the same must be said of Mary.[2] She gazed up at Him as He hung on the Cross as offered Himself to the Father in the flesh and blood He received from her. Once again, her heart had to offer its fiat to the divine will (Lk 1:28). The piercing of Christโ€™s heart was the piercing of Maryโ€™s; His death, her death.

Mary offered herself to the Father through, with, and in her Son; and one does not make a sincere offering to God that He does not respond to with an abundant outpouring of His grace. Like Simon of Cyrene, we may feel pressed into service. But recall that the Lord used Simonโ€™s carrying of the Cross to convert him โ€“ and in turn, Simonโ€™s children (Mk 15:21 ; Rom 16:13). Saint Paul

Look at Paulโ€™s account of his โ€œthorn in the flesh.โ€ Although Paul does not spell out the difficulty, a number of commentators suggest a chronic physical ailment. Paul characterized it as โ€œa messenger of satan meant to buffet me and keep me from becoming puffed upโ€ (2 Cor. 12: ). Paul petitioned the Lord to remove the thorn โ€“ not once, but three separate times. And like Jesusโ€™ three petitions, Paulโ€™s were not by relieving his pain but infusing him with strength. The Lord spoke to him, โ€œMy grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.โ€ After this revelation Paul was able to say, โ€œI will all the more gladly boast of my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities; for when I am weak, then I am strongโ€ (2 Cor 12:9-10). Suffering has various causes โ€“ Godโ€™s fatherly discipline, persecution for Christโ€™s sake, life in a fallen world. Saint Paul experienced the full gambit: being beaten with rods, imprisoned, shipwrecked, exposed to the elements, extended hunger, stoned, scourged, and finally beheaded (2 Cor 11:23โ€“27; Gal 4:13; 2 Tm 4:10โ€“16). As he wrote the Corinthians, โ€œChristโ€™s sufferings overflow to usโ€ (2 Cor 1:5); and as he told the disciples of Asia, it is โ€œthrough many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of Godโ€ (Acts 14:22). He likened his sufferings and impending martyrdom to a drink offering poured out upon the templeโ€™s altar (Ex 29:40โ€“41; Nm 28:7; Phil 2:17; 2 Tm 4:6).

Through all of this the Holy Spirit taught Paul the role that his suffering played, not in the objective redemption achieved by Christ, but in the subjective redemption of Christโ€™s grace being applied to individual souls. Paul wrote to the Colossians, โ€œNow I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake, and in my flesh I complete what is lackingin Christโ€™s afflictions for the sake of his body, that is, the Churchโ€ (Col 1:24). To suffer for the sake of Christ is also to suffer for the sake of His Body. Christ and His Cross sanctify and impart supernatural value to our offerings (Mt 23:19; Heb 13:10, 15โ€“16). โ€œIf Christโ€™s obedience while suffering His passion merited the redemption of our race, then his suffering in usโ€” the trustful surrender to the Father that he produces in our souls โ€“ can merit the application of redemptive graces to our brothers and sisters. The Redeemer makes the sufferings of his members redemptive.โ€[3] As Jesus clothed Himself in Maryโ€™s flesh and blood and offered Himself for the worldโ€™s redemption, so He now clothes Himself in our flesh and blood and offers our sufferings to the Father. And When we unite our sufferings to Christโ€™s, our trials and afflictions become redemptive; because God responds to our resignation to His will with an abundant outpouring of graceโ€”so abundant that it โ€œspills overโ€ from our souls to those of our brothers and sisters. As with Mary, the Lord wants to make use our faithfulness in the midst of suffering, so โ€œthat the thoughts out of many heartโ€โ€”our familiesโ€™ and friendsโ€™ โ€“ โ€œmay be revealedโ€ (Lk 2:35), and they be drawn to the One crucified for them.

Editor’s note: This article is adapted from Shane Kaplerโ€™s The Biblical Roots of Marian Consecration: Devotion to the Immaculate Heart in Light of Scripture (TAN Books, 2022).


[1] Tim Staples, Behold Your Mother (El Cajon, CA: Catholic Answers Press, 2014), 247-8.

[2] Raniero Cantalamessa, Mary: Mirror of the Church (Collegeville, MN: The Liturgical Press, 1992), 82.

[3] Shane Kapler, James: Jewish Roots, Catholic Fruits (Kettering, OH: Angelico Press), 64.

Image: Christ on the Cross with Mary and St. John, Rogier van der Weyden, public domain.

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Shane Kapler lives in the Archdiocese of St. Louis and is the author of works such as The Biblical Roots of Marian Consecration, The Epistle to the Hebrews and the Seven Core Beliefs of Catholics, and Marrying the Rosary to the Divine Mercy Chaplet. He is online at ExplainingChristianity.com

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