DAILY DEVOTIONS, LIFELONG FAITH

The One Thing Necessary

07 Apr 2026
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โ€œIf you donโ€™t remember anything else, remember this one thing!โ€

A parent may use these words to emphasize an essential piece of advice given to a child. An employer may do the same when entrusting an employee with an important project. The implication: if this one thing is overlooked, no matter what else is accomplished, the goal is missed; the project failed. On the other hand, if you do just this one thing, success is assured.

Wouldnโ€™t it be wonderful if we could know the โ€œone thingโ€ in the spiritual life which would assure spiritual โ€œsuccessโ€โ€”holiness and eternal life, our lifeโ€™s mission fulfilled? In fact, we can. And Jesus Himself told us what it is.

ONE THING TO RULE THEM ALL

The scene is set. Jesus has been welcomed into the home of Martha and Mary. Ever the diligent hostess, Martha anxiously dashes about serving the Lord and her other guests. Meanwhile, Mary sits quietly at Jesusโ€™ feet, enraptured, hanging on His every wordโ€”and appearing to Martha to be slacking off.

Marthaโ€™s patience runs out. She determines to enlist Jesusโ€™ help to rouse her inconsiderate sister: โ€œTell herโ€ฆto help me!โ€ (Lk. 10:40). But Our Lord responds: โ€œMartha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things: one thing is needful. Mary had chosen the good portion, which shall not be taken away from herโ€ (Lk. 10:41-42). Although the correction is gentle, Martha is stunned into silence. Jesusโ€™ words reverberate in her mind: โ€œOnly one thing is needful.โ€

Some might argue the point. Arenโ€™t there other necessities in life, such as eating and drinking?! Yes, of course. But Jesus is emphasizing that โ€œman shall not live by bread alone but by every world that proceeds from the mouth of Godโ€ (Mt. 4:4). God is our life. Everything flows from him, even our most basic needs. Apart from him, we are lifeless, withered branches (cf. Jn. 15:5).

The โ€œone thingโ€ upon which our life depends is preserving our โ€œconnectionโ€ with Jesus, the true Vine. Imitating Mary, we must turn the central part of our being, our very heart, toward the Lord with loving attention. As we wait and listen, treasuring His presence, He shares His life with us. And if we consistently choose this โ€œgood portion,โ€ weโ€™ll be able to say to Jesus โ€œโ€ฆ[even] in lifeโ€™s noisiest hour, there whispers still the ceaseless love of theeโ€ (Samuel Taylor Coleridge).

In his book Saint Mary Magdalene: Prophetess of Eucharistic Love, Fr. Sean Davidson comments: โ€œMary has discovered the one thing that is really necessary or needfulโ€ฆthe one thing indispensable or essential for anyone, namely, to contemplate and love the Lord.โ€ Do this and your life will be a success in the eyes of God because your fellowship with Him will lead to loving obedience and inner transformation. It will open your heart to all He wants to do in and through you. And abiding firmly in the Vine, you will eventually, inevitably, bear much fruit (cf. Jn. 15:5).

If we miss this one necessary thing, weโ€™ve missed everything.

I NEVER KNEW YOU

In the highly regarded book endorsed by Raymond Cardinal Burke, In Sinu Jesus, a Benedictine monk reports that he learned this same lesson from Our Lord:

Seminarians are taught many things, some useful, others less so, but are they taught to love Me [Jesus], to give Me their hearts, to remain in My presence, to seek My Face, and to listen to My voice? If they are not taught these things, they will have learned nothing useful, and all their efforts will remain shallow and sterile. Woe to those who allow men to pass through their institutions without teaching them the one thing necessary!

This admonition applies not only to seminarians but to every disciple of Christโ€”and those who guide and teach them. If we donโ€™t make it a priority to give our hearts to Jesus, to seek His presence and to listen to His voice, our lives will โ€œremain shallow and sterile.โ€ Worse, if we deliberately disregard the call to an intimate relationship with Jesus, we risk hearing those chilling words: โ€œI never knew youโ€ (Mt. 7:23).

Thankfully, those who choose โ€œthe good portionโ€โ€”quality time with Jesusโ€”never have to hear those distressing words. So, practically speaking, how can we do this?

IN HIS PRESENCE

We may be tempted to envy Mary. How we would love to have Jesus come to our home! We forget, He is always with us. How can we become more aware of His presenceโ€”and become more present to Him?

Remember: Jesus is truly with you. St. Teresa of Avila said the most common mistake we make in prayer is failing to recognize we are addressing a living Person whoโ€™s right with us. In her book Miracles Do Happen, Sr. Briege McKenna says: โ€œWe forget, sometimes, that Jesus is a living person who waits for us.โ€ The commitment we make to pray is not to โ€œa project, but to a living person, that living person is Jesus who is always there.โ€

We experience Jesusโ€™ presence most profoundly in the Blessed Sacrament. These are precious times. But what if we are unable to be in His Eucharistic Presence as often as weโ€™d like, due to health conditions or other circumstances of life?

If the outward expression of your love for the Lord is hindered in this way, be assured that your love is not hindered. As Jesus explained to Venerable Consolata Bertrone: โ€œWhen one desires only to love, then everything that obstructs that love becomes meritorious.โ€ Jesus promises to transform these hindrances โ€œinto graces and blessings for soulsโ€ (Jesus Speaks to the World).

Furthermore, the Benedictine monk previously mentioned offers great encouragement, reportedly given to him by Our Lord: โ€œIf you cannot come before My Eucharistic Face, you can be transported there spiritually by an act of desire coming from the depths of the soul. Ask Me to transport you to those tabernacles in the world where I am most forgotten. โ€ฆI will transport your soul into My presenceโ€ฆโ€ (In Sinu Jesu).

Similarly, St. Pio of Pietrelcina advised those who couldnโ€™t get to a church to: โ€œFly with your spirit to the tabernacleโ€ฆembrace the Beloved of our souls, even more than if you had been permitted to receive Him sacramentally.โ€

Finally, remember to enter the tabernacle of your own soul where Jesusโ€”in fact, the Most Holy Trinityโ€”dwells. Fr. Dominic M. Hoffman, O.P., writes: โ€œOn the altar He [Jesus] is before us. In the soul He is within us. In both cases it is the same one true Godโ€ (The Life Within: The Prayer of Union).

So, let us enter the sacred enclosure of our hearts and meet Jesus there, knowing that we are doing what matters most in life, โ€œthe one thing necessary.โ€  


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Mary Beth Kremski headshot 2026

After returning to the Catholic Church in 1993, Mary Beth Kremski found her spiritual home in contemplative spirituality. She shares her love for the Church and for living a contemplative life in the world through her writing, which includes several articles for Catholic magazines and a chapter in the book Surprised by Truth 2. Her latest publication is Cultivating a Contemplative Heart and Becoming a Person of Prayer, recently released by Our Sunday Visitor. She has been happily married for many years to her husband, Stan.

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