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Why Advent Ends with Joseph: Fourth Sunday of Advent

19 Dec 2025
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On this last Sunday of Advent, our Gospel calls us to reflect on Joseph, not Mary or Jesus. ย Why?

Gospel (Read Mt. 1:18-24)

As our time of preparation and waiting in Advent draws to a close, we find ourselves listening to St. Matthewโ€™s account of how Joseph became an important part of the first Advent.  In some ways, the example of Joseph is the perfect pivot point as we move from anticipation to reality in the Incarnation, celebrated all through the liturgical season of Christmas.  How?

St. Matthew tells us that โ€œMary was betrothed to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found with child through the Holy Spirit.โ€  There is so much we would like to know about how this came about!  Did Mary try to explain to Joseph the impossible story of the Annunciation?  Or did she, instead, keep the  explanation to herself and simply acknowledge to Joseph that she was โ€œwith childโ€?  We donโ€™t know for sure.  

What we do know is that Maryโ€™s pregnancy presented a challenge to Joseph, her betrothed husband.  In that day, betrothal was a binding legal relationship, like marriage, even before the couple lived together to consummate it.  A betrothal could only be ended by death or divorce.  Joseph was a โ€œrighteous man.โ€  He decided to โ€œdivorce her quietlyโ€ so that she would be spared public exposure.  Why did Joseph believe he had to divorce Mary?  

One possibility is that although Joseph thought this mysterious pregnancy meant Mary had been unfaithful, he still loved her too much to cause her humiliation. ย Another possibility is that Joseph understood that the mysterious pregnancy of his devout betrothed (remember, evenย an archangel addressed her as โ€œfull of graceโ€) made it highly unsuitable for him to marry her. ย Even if Mary had not explained the cause of her pregnancy at all, her devout life would have convinced Joseph that something very magnificent was underway in her. ย For that reason, he would not be able to take her into his home, out of simple reverence, but he must do all that he could to spare her any shame. ย This latter scenario fits the details we do have better, but, either way, what a dilemma!

Joseph was not left alone to work this out: โ€œThe angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream.โ€ ย Now we see that as the Incarnation began with an angelic visit, it would now proceed with another one. ย  The angel addresses Joseph as, โ€œSon of David.โ€ย At the Annunciation,ย the angelโ€™s greeting to Mary was full of prophetic meaning;ย this greeting, too, brings into focusย the glorious promise of God that the Messiah would be of the house of David. ย Joseph stood in this line of kings, very distant by his own day. ย 

As the angel continues, it is clear that Joseph is meant to father the Child in Maryโ€™s womb: โ€œDo not be afraid to take Mary into your home.โ€ ย Again, we arenโ€™t entirely sure why Joseph feared to continue with their betrothal.ย ย Either he suspected Mary and her story, or he so respected her that he thought she should be Godโ€™s spouse alone and that he was not worthy to take her in marriage. ย 

The angel assures him there is no need for fear, because Joseph has a role to fulfill in Godโ€™s ancient plan for manโ€™s salvation. ย We donโ€™t know preciselyย what caused Josephโ€™s fear, but we know he had to resist it and welcome the Child and His Mother into his home, bestowing on Him the royal lineage of David. ย Joseph would be charged with naming the boy, a traditional privilege of fatherhood. ย His willingness to do this would help fulfill what God had said long ago through the prophet, Isaiah: โ€œBehold, the virgin shall conceive a son, andย theyย shall name Him Emmanuel.โ€

When Joseph awoke, was he thinking about this Scripture from Isaiah, which he had undoubtedly heard many times in his life?  Did he think about how the prophecy described a virgin giving birth but โ€œtheyโ€ would name him?  Did he start to understand that his obedience of faith would bring the โ€œtheyโ€ (and not just โ€œsheโ€) to pass?  Was there an awful lot he just didnโ€™t understand?  Nevertheless, in spite of any misgivings he might have had, โ€œhe did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him.โ€  By faith, he received the Child and His Mother and became part of their family.

Perhaps this is why it is Joseph we meet on the last Sunday in Advent.  Arenโ€™t we, too, now asked to receive the Child and His Mother in a fresh and loving way?  Arenโ€™t we, too, asked to give the obedience of faith to believe that no matter what our misgivings might be, or how they arise, we are meant to join that Family?

St. Joseph, pray for us.

Possible response:  Heavenly Father, St. Josephโ€™s willingness to do something that must have seemed quite difficult is exactly the kind of example I need nearly every hour in my life with You.

First Reading (Read Is. 7:10-14)

We turn now from Josephโ€™s example of the obedience of faith to King Ahazโ€™s example of the disobedience of lack of faith that took place about 700 B.C. ย In this episode, the very weak Ahaz, king of Judah, had beenย plotting to form an alliance with pagan nations to protectย Israelย against military conquest. God told him not to do thisโ€”God never wanted His people to look for help from pagan nations. ย They needed to call upon Him alone. ย 

The Lord sent Isaiah to Ahaz with a command: โ€œAsk for a sign from the Lord your God; let it be as deep as the nether world, or high as the sky.โ€ ย In other words, God told Ahaz to ask for an otherworldly signย to proveย Godโ€™s instruction againstย paganย alliances. ย When granted, it wouldย demonstrateย beyond a shadow of a doubt that He was trustworthy. ย 

Unfortunately, the crafty Ahaz didnโ€™t want to be convinced that Godโ€™s plan was the right path for him; he liked his own plan.  So, in false piety, he declines to ask for that kind of sign: โ€œI will not tempt the Lord.โ€  We can just about see Isaiah rolling his eyes at this point: โ€œIs it not enough for you to weary people, must you also weary my God?โ€  Isaiah knew what was behind this coy sham.

Not to be thwarted by Ahaz, the Lord Himself gave a sign, and what a sign it was! ย We are still celebrating it: โ€œThe virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall name him Emmanuel.โ€ ย This will be the sign that our salvation, our victory over our enemies (sin, death, the devil) will come through God alone. ย โ€œEmmanuelโ€ means โ€œGod is with us.โ€ ย This name is actually a description of the Incarnation. ย The name, Jesus, givenย to both Joseph and Mary to be the Name of Godโ€™s Son, means โ€œSavior.โ€ ย How appropriate! ย 

Ahaz resisted the obedience of faith to try to saveย himself and his people. ย Joseph and Mary gave God the obedience of faith and welcomed the only Savior men will ever knowโ€”God-with-us, Emmanuel.

O come, o come, Emmanuel.

Possible response:  Heavenly Father, thank You for making and keeping this promise to show us that our helpโ€”our salvationโ€”is in You alone.

Psalm (Read Ps. 24:1-6)

This psalm helps us get ready to leave Advent and welcome Christmas.  It sings of the glory of Godโ€™s possession of โ€œthe earth and its fullness, the world and those who dwell in it.โ€  God and man were always meant to dwell together (remember the Garden of Eden), but disobedience that comes from lack of faith separated them: โ€œWho can ascend the mountain of the Lord or who may stand in His holy place?  One whose hands are sinless, whose heart is clean.โ€  This is our Jesus!  Soon, He comes to show โ€œthe face of Godโ€ to those who seek Him, and that would be us.  After our Advent preparation, we are ready to sing, โ€œLet the Lord enter; He is king of glory.โ€

Possible response:  The psalm is, itself, a response to our other readings.  Read it again prayerfully to make it your own.

Second Reading (Read Rom. 1:1-7)

St. Paul, in writing to the Church in Rome, scoops together many of the themes we have seen in our other readings.  He acknowledges that Jesus, Son of David, is the fulfillment of Godโ€™s promises made so long ago.  He knows that because of what Jesus has done for us, there is Good News, the Gospel, to be preached throughout the world.  See how St. Paulโ€™s apostleship, a grace from God, commissioned him to call Jews and Gentiles alike (in other words, everyone) to the โ€œobedience of faith.โ€  We, too, are โ€œcalled to be holy,โ€ as were Mary and Joseph.  Jesus comes to make that possible.  He brings us โ€œgraceโ€ and โ€œpeace.โ€

Has Advent made us willing to offer to our God the obedience of faith with renewed vigor in this new liturgical year?

Possible response:  Heavenly Father, I know the greatest and only gift I can give You is my faith.  Help me live that faith better in the year ahead.


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Gayle Somers is a member of St. Thomas the Apostle parish in Phoenix and has been writing and leading parish Bible studies since 1996. She is the author of three bible studies, Galatians: A New Kind of Freedom Defended (Basilica Press), Genesis: God and His Creation, and Genesis: God and His Family (Emmaus Road Publishing). Her latest book, Whispers of Mary: What Twelve Old Testament Women Teach Us About Mary is available from Ascension Press. Gayle and her husband Gary reside in Phoenix and have three grown children.

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