Three Simple Ways to Declutter Your Life

“…He is not the God of disorder but of peace.” (1 Corinthians 14:33)

We all want peace in our lives, yet it seems to be the single most elusive fruit of the Holy Spirit we possess. One of the most popular articles I’ve written was about three very simple ways to attain interior peace, which seems to be a timeless topic. We never seem to get enough of understanding practical steps toward that inner calm that we chase but never capture.

Like most everyone, I, too, struggle with maintaining that deep and abiding serenity promised by God, the kind that surpasses all human understanding. There have been fleeting moments in my life where God has graced me with such a gift, but they are infrequent. Most of the time, I am trying to keep up with the rat race of daily life, and at the end of the day, my emotional and spiritual reserve is nil.

Pondering this common conundrum, it seems that the largest obstacle to acquiring spiritual tranquility is related to all of the clutter we carry. Clutter weighs us down. It distracts us. It depletes us. And it becomes discouraging. However, most of us become accustomed to the burdens we carry. Rather than feeling contempt for our excess, we become comfortable with what has become familiar. We do not rid ourselves of what clamors within, of what we wrestle with. Instead, it becomes a part of us — a sick, diseased extension of ourselves.

But God is not a God of disorder. Scripture is very clear about God’s orderly and patterned nature. If I ever need to realign myself with this truth, I simply take a walk outside and take note of the beautiful symmetry that surrounds me: the patterns of leaves and flowers, shapes of trees, rhythm of night and day. It doesn’t take long for the reality to be absorbed, and once again, I return to that inner sanctuary of my heart to question why and what needs to change.

This new calendar year always presents us with fresh opportunities to amend our lives. Of course, we can and should spiritually evolve throughout the year. But we tend to take a deeper look at ourselves, a more honest glance at our mistakes and patterns of behavior that may have become sinful, and thus new desire and drive to become something greater is born.

Here are three suggestions I have — advice I myself will take — to declutter your life this year. Each focuses on one aspect of your identity: spiritual, emotional, and physical clutter. Consider each as you browse through closets, plan for spring cleaning the curtains and freshening up your home, or make good on your gym membership. When the soul is properly aligned with order rather than chaos, then all the visible excess will eventually vanish.

Simplify Your Life

Start small. Begin by assessing your home and areas where too much “stuff” has invaded your living space. Pick one spot to start organizing. For me, this tends to be my bookshelves and seasonal decor. Take one drawer, closet, or shelf at a time, and begin sifting through your items. Ask yourself if this is something you really love, need, or have justifiable reason to keep.

What you hold may have sentimental value to you, because your grandfather gave it to you. But do you have other items in your home that mean more to you from your grandfather? Sentimentality is not justification for retaining your junk. Is this a useful item? Something you use often? A particularly thoughtful or important gift from someone? The point is to take time with each items and consider why you have kept it.

The general rule for decluttering is to get rid of 75% of what you own in each category. It may seem impossible or at the very least unreasonable, but it’s a good goal for which to strive.

You may find that once your living space becomes less crowded, overstuffed, and messy, that peace for which you long will settle upon your soul and give you greater motivation to continue. The key to simplification is to maintain what you have rather than keep rotating through the latest and greatest, whatever that may be this year.

Clean Up Your Digital Devices

If there’s something I radically disdain, it is digital clutter. But as a writer, I tend to accumulate a lot of this: hundreds of emails to sift through, a melange of social media accounts, memes, and updates to keep up with, and generally a lot of junk files saved to my laptop or cloud. This is the area that has become the most oppressive and distracting aspect of my life to date, and I have a gut feeling that many others are struggling similarly.

The tough aspect of this suggestion is really this: ditch at least three-fourths (keeping to that 75% rule) of your digital excess. Think about what is really meaningful to you and whether or not social media sites, like Facebook or Instagram, honestly help you achieve it. These can be the bane of daily living, or they can be the boon of moderation. Either way, take some time to carefully discern proper, healthy use of your digital devices.

In my home, we have two laptops, one television, one tablet, and two smartphones. Ben and I each have a computer and phone for our respective work, but we all share the rest among our family members. And we only have the television on when we engage in our weekly family movie night, complete with popcorn and hot chocolate, or when Ben and I are supervising what the girls watch.

This year, take one aspect of your digital life and analyze it. Start with the junk files on your computer. Yes, it is tedious, but go through them all and just get rid of what you don’t need, what’s outdated, and what you never use. Then, take each social media account and take a thirty day hiatus, one at a time. If you don’t end up missing anything, delete it or consider deactivating for a period of time.

New scientific research suggests that constant streaming of online gaming, social media scrolling, and internet searches are actually changing the way our brains function. We are no longer a people capable of engaging in deep work. Instead, we are enslaved to the instant gratification of fast-paced downloads, videos, and short articles. That’s definitely food for thought.

Replace Time Online with Prayer

Maybe you don’t spend an inordinate amount of time on the internet, but rather, your particular vice is shopping or indulging in dystopian post-apocalyptic novels. Maybe you’re a work-a-holic (like many are today). No matter, replace whatever is a “time suck” in your life with something that is far more important: time spent with God.

It’s interesting to note how lonely people are these days. Yet we are far more “connected” than ever before in history. The issue is that we are constantly plugged in to something, constantly moving or doing something, and we have neglected the very essence of what feeds our souls and re-energizes us: time spent in solitude with God.

I saved this suggestion for last, because it is the one point I pray you will remember out of everything else written here. It has unfortunately become a cliché to say, “Spend more time in prayer,” and despite our best laid plans, we tend to fall short time and again in this area of self-improvement.

Don’t just add time to pray. Take something else away! We are all given the same amount of time every day, and the key is not to waste the time we have. I have three little girls, all at home, and I’m the primary caregiver for our middle daughter, Sarah, who has a rare disease. But prayer is integral to my daily life. It is something I do not neglect, regardless of what else might need to be set aside for the day.

And when you enter into that sacred space that silence and solitude affords you, God will grant you kairos time – His time – so that you can accomplish far more than you realize.

Here’s a final thought from St. Peter Canisius: “If you have too much to do, with God’s help you will find time to do it all.” Indeed. Give him what little you have, and He will multiply your efforts beyond human comprehension.

If you give to God what belongs to Him anyway – your time, your life, your day – you will find your heart residing in a more homeostatic state of peace.

By

Jeannie Ewing believes the world ignores and rejects the value of the Cross. She writes about the hidden value of suffering and even discovering joy in the midst of grief.  As a disability advocate, Jeannie shares her heart as a mom of two girls with special needs in Navigating Deep Waters and is the author of From Grief to Grace , A Sea Without A Shore , and Waiting with Purpose.  Jeannie is a frequent guest on Catholic radio and contributes to several online and print Catholic magazines.   She, her husband, and three daughters live in northern Indiana. For more information, please visit her website lovealonecreates.com.

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  • Tanya Wersinger

    Thank you for the push. Sometimes that is all that is needed to get the junk out and let peace reign! a gentle push, mind you!

  • jellojenna6

    Thank you for the suggestions. 75% seems like I lot, but i would like to try it.

  • Maryann Srbljan

    Most of my stuff is my theology books I have no access to a library compared to mine to study and now our only Catholic college in the state closed. I live in a small housewith small closets. How do you get rid of 75% of the clothes in your 30 inch closet. Not practical with 4 seasons. When you need out door work clothes and indoor work clothes and go to town clothes and church clothes for 4 seasons.

  • Dr. Philip Cheung

    Maryann, I think “75%” is figurative. Hang on to what you need. There has to be extra clothing, and I tell you why. I got rid of 7 shirts and left with 10. Then, 2 shrinks in the washing machine; 3 literally eaten by Webbing moths, 1 looks definitely tattered, and 1 doesn’t fit any more — do the maths, it’s a situation close to oblivion. I am going to the post-xmas Sales this weekend.

    By the way, hang on to EVERY theology book. Good ones are getting very rare. God bless you spiritually and materially !

  • Dr. Philip Cheung

    JJ6, start with 10%. That way, you don’t have to be too brutal on yourself. Then maybe another 10 % in the summer?? God bless you spiritually and materially !

  • Dr. Philip Cheung

    Tanya, I treat spring cleaning and purging as a religious purgation, a penance, if you like. But management of material things is a balance. You don’t want to regret throwing away something that one day you wish you hadn’t. Think of the time, energy and money you need to spend to replace it. This makes doing a task very expensive. if you think about it, our only asset is TIME. And there are things that cannot be replaced. God bless you spiritually and materially!

  • Tanya Wersinger

    I have begun the process and your advice is timely…… No pun intended! I think balance is the driving point, the energy to get to that point is purifying. Thank you for the extra insight and advice, maybe you could offer a prayer for me to get through the purge. Offering up the cleanup for everyone’s purification. God bless you too!

  • Maryann Srbljan

    When youhave 30″ wide closets, you don’t have a lot of extra clothes. I must have winter and summer clothes, dress clothes for church as well as for working in the yard. Most of my stuff is my cooks or my canning jars. If one has a small house (1200 sq ft) you don’t have a lot of storage space which will hurt on my resale. Its an acreage horse property.

  • DanaMari

    Such a great article to start off the new year!! Blessing DMd

  • Bernardo Cynthia

    Excellent points. I’m a bit of a keeper, so this will benefit me. Although, 75 percent maybe too much for me. About 50 percent, here I go again. Anyway, I do like the three ways to de clutter. Thanks.

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