Turn to Mary With Your Prayer Life

The month of November begins with the celebration of All Saints Day and the sobriety of All Souls Day.  We’re on the brink of Advent, and it seems appropriate that before we begin in earnest to look for the Baby who is our Savior, we remember those who went before us.

It’s also appropriate, I guess, that this month of November has me thinking about prayer.  I’m supposed to be praying for deceased souls and those in purgatory, after all.

But my prayer life could use some help.

You might have the mistaken impression, given that I host this little Mary Moment each week, that I’m pious, an example to hold up to your kids, or even good at this prayer.  Myth buster:  I’m NOT.

That’s not just fake humility either.  Every single morning, a debate rages in me, one that holds my daunting to-do list on the one side and the amount of time I’ll need to complete my prayers on the other.

Yeah, there’s something to be said about squashing that debate and carrying through with my prayers, I know.  But sometimes — many times — I feel like my prayers are a waste.

Don’t make me roll my eyes by offering me comfort or telling me that trying is what matters.  I agree.  What makes me roll my eyes is that I KNOW BETTER ABOUT MYSELF.  Sometimes, I’m just not in it 100 percent.

How do I motivate myself, boost myself, make my prayers fruitful?

As I was thinking about this, I started looking through a quotes file I keep.  I found this excerpt from Joseph Langford’s book Mother Teresas Secret Fire:

There is a simple key to fruitful prayer.  It is to first take the time to touch God in faith before we engage in prayer, to be in a state of contact with him before saying prayers.  Simply put, it is to pray before you pray.

This simple practice can change our experience of prayer.  This may seem like a small adjustment, but it opens us onto a reality as large and powerful as God himself.  Without conscious faith, our prayer is not true contact, not prayer at all, but simply cogitation.  Transformation is Gods free gift, but it is only our free act of contact in faith that makes that gift possible.  We will still encounter struggles and distractions—but we will at least be touching the hem of his robe, however briefly, every day of our lives.

If you’re like me, this quote is all well and good when you read it or hear it.  But to put it into practice?  Good luck.

That’s where I need to remember the heavenly cheerleader I have in my corner, the mother who wants nothing more than to see me succeed at this, the most important work I do.

I can turn to Mary and know, without a doubt, that she’ll be there for me.  I can offer her my prayers before I pray them, ask her to make them beautiful, ask her to help me be open to God’s grace.

And why not?  I don’t think it can hurt my prayer life, and if it helps it, well, all the better.

Sarah Reinhard

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When Sarah Reinhard set off in her life as a grown-up, she had no idea it would involve horses, writing, and sparkly dress shoes. In her work as a Catholic wife, mom, writer, parish employee, and catechist, she’s learned a lot of lessons and had a lot of laughs. She’s online at snoringscholar.com and is the author of a number of books.

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  • Stuart

    Nice article, as always, Sarah. I knew you wrote it before coming to the page though. I was like Mary article on a site I visit…gotta be Sarah. :)

  • JMC

    The whole concept is wonderful when you read the quote. My problem is, will I remember what that quote tells me once I leave this page? Maybe I’ll write it down and stick it in my prayerbook so I’ll see it every time… Thank you. That little suggestion is of incalculable worth, especially when sometimes you feel as if you’re just having words running through your head, something you say by rote without really thinking about their meaning.

  • http://www.snoringscholar.com/ Sarah Reinhard

    I hear you, JMC. And I’m glad you found this helpful! :)

  • http://www.snoringscholar.com/ Sarah Reinhard

    *blush*
    Thanks, Stuart!

  • CG

    “I can turn to Mary and know, without a doubt, that she’ll be there for me.”

    http://youtu.be/UFrMWubdIEA

    This is so true!

  • Britt Wit

    Praying to Mary breaks the first two commandments so it is a sin.
    If you do it, you will lose your treasures in heaven.

  • Britt Wit

    I found in helpful in confirming that most ROMAN Catholics still don’t read their own bibles even though millions died trying to get it in your language instead of Latin, greek and hebrew.

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