The End of the Affair

William Fahey

by William Fahey on February 17, 2012 · 5 comments

Woman reading to Children In time, the proud brow and penetrating glances seemed to vanish. What I saw clearly was her vivid color and undiminished vigor, and when we met I found her light and pleasing. She it was who taught me poetry: first by introducing sea shanties and nursery rhymes, then Lear and Frost, Keats and Coleridge, and then the Psalms. I never even considered the Psalms as poetry—Adler did not discuss this in his book How to Read a Book. And the wondrous thing was this: she did not just read what was in front of her; no, she chanted and sang from memory, and even when she stopped singing, the enchantment of her song left me spellbound.

And so, here we are, reader of the luminous page. I must come clean. The older sister is the one I love and to her I dedicate this column, in which my friends and I will bring to your attention those worthy titles that give stuff and substance to life—the countless good books that one should read, regardless of what is fashionable, smart, or common.

I introduce you to the Civilized Reader.

 

Editor’s Note: This is the first installment of “The Civilized Reader.”  Edited by William and Amy Fahey, The Civilized Reader joyfully reviews classic, good books — books that will enrich the life of your family and the minds of your children.

 

 

 

 

 

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  • bronwyn

    Cleverly written.

  • Yblegen

    I am glad you wrote this article, because I know  how you feel.  I was where you were.  In the end, I, too, walked away.  Years later I saw them again, they seemed happy, but I felt an emptiness and sadness around them.  I came home and found a peace and joy that surpasses all understanding.

  • Terrygeorge

    i would love to see a guide to good literature.  classic and new.  by FAITHFUL catholics. 

  • Kait

    What a clever analogy! I thoroughly enjoyed reading this column and I can’t wait to see more!

  • chaco

    Whew !  This pushed my buttons.  The Bible refers to Wisdom as a female and there are definately counterfeit forms of wisdom out there.  These imposters remind me of Jesus’ words; “They are like the tombs of powerful leaders; beautiful on the outside but only death on the inside”.  I fell for my wife in a gradual – Savor the taste”- manner, partly due to how she didn’t present herself in an overly provakative way. But at one point,  I “dropped the ball” & neglected to do my husbandly duty of treating her as “The keeper of the Keys to my Kingdom”. This led to her dabbling in Relativism (no Truth except what is relative to each individual’s personal experience/appetittes) to find what I was depriving her of. Luckily, after painful fear of losing what had brought us together (Lady Wisdom) I realized my failures which caused her cravings to stray and vowed anew to treat her with the reverence a Wife/Queen is due.