In A Far and Distant Land–CE Exclusive from Saudi Arabia

Harold G. Koenig, MD

by Harold G. Koenig, MD on February 27, 2012 · 8 comments

Fasting is similar in Christianity and Islam, although more strongly emphasized in Islam, where fasting during the month of Ramadan is obligatory and is encouraged at other times as well.  The family and family values are held in great esteem by both traditions (although perhaps emphasized more in Islam), as is the priority placed on the raising of children within the faith tradition.

There is also a strong belief in turning to God when difficult life situations arise, which helps them to reinterpret these crises to give purpose and meaning to them.  This helps them to see adversity as part of God’s plan (and for Muslims, adversity is a sign of God’s love for them).  Yes, there are differences too between the beliefs of Muslims and Christians.  However, has focusing on those differences really gotten us anywhere?  I think it is time to start building a relationship based on the many beliefs, values, and morals that our 1.5 billion neighbors have in common with us.

I have been anxious to start doing research with the faculty on a variety of topics, and we have begun working together on many projects (depression in colon cancer, patients with end-stage kidney disease, women with pregnancies with congenital fetal anomalies, breast cancer and changes in family relationships).  To my delight, most of these projects also involved assessing people’s religious beliefs and practices.  One of the biggest surprises has been the receptiveness to research on religion and health.  This has been true at all levels, from medical students to faculty.  Particularly striking was my being approached by the director of the university psychiatry department who asked if I could assist him in conducting a research project on religion and mental health.

Jeddah Minaret In fact, it has turned out that every psychiatrist I have met here has been devoutly religious, has embraced me as a colleague, and has been interested in studying this topic.  Medical students have even asked if they could come to the U.S. and study with me.  In only two weeks I have come to love these people, and to respect their devout religious beliefs.

This experience of friendship, kindness, and acceptance has helped me to recognize that the Spirit here in Jeddah is the same Spirit that I worship back home in my church.  Indeed, Allahu Akbar — God is great above everything else — and He is here in Saudi Arabia, too.

 

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  • Tscotom

    A very positive outlook indeed !  As in ecumenical dialogue, this being inter-religious, one has to talk about what they share in common.   This is often called ‘the dialogue of life.’   In Islam, there are many, but having said that, there are also very many stark differences and these ought not be set aside.  The Islamic mindset is by definition very different from the Western mind.  If both cannot be ‘superior’ to each other, then maybe dialogue is possible.  But be wise & careful, offending Islamic sensitivities is quite easy for the western man.  Learning all that is their Islamic culture, history and tradition is key.  Also, an important hint,  when they share their religion w/ you, reciprocating in kind is not usually recommended, remember all it takes is one negative comment from any Saudi and any ‘infidel’ foreigner can summarily be deported from the Kingdom w/o any hearing or trial.  Saudi Arabia does not rely one iota on (western) tourism revenue.  And also, watch out for the mutawwa, or ‘religious police’ who work for the gov’t's Committee for the Propagation of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice.   Best of luck.

      

  • chaco

    Thanks for the hope. [I also find hope in the fact that the foremost prophesy about world peace; Fatima, is the name of Mohamed's daughter.]  The greatest enemy to my hope is the seemingly irreconcilable disagreement about religious freedom. For me, the unavoidable Truth is; One cannot be forced into freindship / Love. A “Real” experience of the Divine has to be an act of the FREE Will. I am incapable of any compromise on this view.  I ‘ve yet to see anyone prove otherwise. That’s why I hold America’s protection of this right to be indispensible. It is also an immutable Truth that we must begin with commonalities in order to develop the bonding necessary for civil discussion of differences.

  • Jon Woods

    Dr. Koenig doesn’t mention that churches, crosses, and all Christian religious practices are illegal in Saudi Arabia. 

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Johannes-Oecolampadius/100003520303127 Johannes Oecolampadius

    Uninformed dhimmis have been falling into this trap for centuries.

  • American Expat in Saudi

    Nicely said, doctor. When we push beyond our fears of what kind of people we will find in Arabia, we will end up meeting a largely warm, gentle and spiritual people. I have found there is much I can learn from them. I hope your experience continues to be a positive and that your article will help others take a deep breath and reconsider their preconceptions. To be sure, there are tiny minorities in Arabia that espouse extremist views, but the vast majority of Saudis, we would gladly welcome as trusted friends and neighbors.

  • Mike Qpmz

    Dr Koenig is fortunate to be a privileged visitor in an elite university environment.  His experience is not in the slightest typical of the Christian experience in SA.

    Had he had a Bible in his luggage, it would certainly have been confiscated by Customs officers if they noticed it.

    Millions of Filipino, Indian and other Christians in SA do not share his privilege, perhaps Dr Koenig should also talk to some of them in the university hospital and his hotel and inquire of their experience.

  • Harold Koenig

    I’m flying home tonight, and my opinion has not changed.  In fact, I’m even more convinced that Saudi’s are a kind and gracious people, who are deeply religious and worship the same God we do (although do so much more fervently).

  • Pargontwin

    I have one item of overwhelming curiosity about Islam.  All things considered, it’s really a trivial one, but it really nags at me.  Have you learned why it is that Muslim womenn only wear black?  It seems a singularly inapprorpate color to have to wear  in that climate.  I found myself nearly passing out from the heat simply by unwisely wearing a black t-shirt on a summer day.