How to be Awesomely Holy – Part One



I was a youth minister and I think there is an unwritten rule that any time a youth minister is promoting something to teens or talking something up to the parish, he or she has to use the term “awesome” about 14 times to describe it.

You have heard of the Saints.  You have read about the Saints.  You may have even been told by someone who really cares the awful truth: Only saints are in Heaven.

That scares me because I see a lot of people around me who know a lot more than I do about the Catholic Faith.  I know more people who know more than I do about the Christian Faith.  There are books upon books about it and the truth is, no one is really writing anything original.  We are all rehashing the same basic statement:

Go be a Saint

I once spoke to a Bishop and asked him if I should get a Master’s degree in Theology.  He laughed.  “Not if it keeps you from BEING a master.”  I’ve taken some graduate courses when they were offered to me for free, but I really took that to heart and simply started to read.  And pray.  And write.  And live.

Ever since that conversation I have wanted to BE a master.  Despite the fact that I continue to figure out how NOT to be a saint, I’m still trying.

Here are some things I am trying to remember:

The question is not who isn’t going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me — Ayn Rand.

I suffer from this and I know that there are others who do as well.  We think that being “obedient” means being non-assertive.

Wrong.  Show me a saint who just sat there and let others bully him out of being awesomely holy.

There are many people you are going to meet every single day who will be intimidated by you even uttering the phrase, “I want nothing more in life than to be a saint, and that means I have to do everything in my power to make you a saint as well.”

People don’t like that and they certainly are not going to sit back and let you just try to be a saint.  They are not going to just say no, they are going to actively try to bring you down to their level.  It is much easier to bring someone down to your sin rather than try to bring yourself up to imitate their resolve.  This is why any time you try to work harder than anyone, lose weight, pray more, or improve your life, you will lose friends.

People hate when others are more successful then they are and they will try to stop them.

Hard Work

No saint was awesomely holy without working at it.

That is because being a saint is hard.  Loving other people is hard.  Anything worth doing is so incredibly hard that most people won’t do it.  That is why they are able to make statues of saints.  Because they are hardcore.

Try it.  Go in front of the Blessed Sacrament today and tell Jesus you want to be a saint.  No matter what.

You will have to work harder then you have ever had to work at being a a saint.  At loving people.

Why?

Because you just invited in the biggest personal spiritual trainer to do whatever He needs to do to fix your sorry self.  And that requires a lot of hard work.

Tithe Your Time

This means 10% of everything.  That’s two hours of prayer every day.  That’s 10% of your money to your parish and charities.  That’s 10% of your talents in ministry work.

If you are not willing to give that much of your life back to God, then you need to change your priorities.  Those of us who are involved in ministry can’t sit back and say, “My work is a prayer/tithe/ministry…”

Get out of fantasy world.  You are no better than anyone else.  You have to work at your prayer life and being a saint.  That means that you have to make time for God.  Let’s be honest, if you are not willing to be pro-active in being a saint or you are not willing to work hard at being a saint, this part is just going to turn you off more.

Hey, don’t say no one ever told you what it takes.

Here’s the kicker: I am terrible at this and trying to work it out myself.  It just scares me that I have to make this happen.

Look at every single awesomely holy saint out there.  They didn’t spend time watching the tube, browsing the Internet and generally being bored with life.

They worked at all of it: the prayer, the ministry, the tithe until the point that 10% became what they were not giving to God.  God was getting 90% of who they were.

The next time you start doing something, ask yourself if you are tithing to make yourself awesomely holy.

Comments

  • laurak

    I don’t think saints “worked” at becoming a saint. Watch the movie “The Miracle of Marcelleno” sometime. He was a saint who was 5 or 6 years old. You can’t help but fall in love with him. This kid just had a beautiful heart. He was “bad” a lot, though. He disobeyed his guardians, he stole apples, and threw rocks at people and he stole the monks’ bread and wine from the supper table. When he was “bored” he would go explore forbidden territory.

    The Lord knew all of this, but He made Marcelleno a saint anyway. Jesus loved him, because Marcellino loved Jesus – with all of his beautiful, little heart.

    The monks tried really hard to become holy. They studied alot, lived in poverty, prayed a great deal and loved Jesus, Marcellino and each other very much.

    The monks discovered a bit too late though, that Marcellina had a heart made of gold.

  • Faithful

    you write people hate when others attempt to be more of a success than they are. This is indeed true. We ought be grateful if we do have ONE solid friend who does rejoice in our every little success. Such is a mature friendship we found. Even we who are striving to be ‘saints’ and ‘holy’ fall into the envy thing…WE want the acknowledgement from others…AND
    THAT may be part of the problem.

    We can get around folks trying to stop us from being ‘holy’… by always
    making them feel the more important. Ask of them, even if we know the
    answer ASK of them, then if we are successful at doing…we have cause to go to them and THANK THEM… and more than likely; they will be
    happy for us…FOR ACKNOWLEDGING THEM.

    Always ask more than tell others how to do something. If we do have
    to tell… preface it with a prior story of how they helped us when they
    (prime the pump…get their attention) Then; after complimenting them
    any words of they doing something or not doing something is easier
    for them to ‘take’… oh; by the way; is that something that might help
    me…what makes you do ………..that way; I always saw it done….
    or I had observed it done ……. why do you do it that way? If they
    explain it; we made them aware; they have to think about what they
    are doing…and subtly we got then to say mmm; you know it’s not
    going to work.. we might get them then to ask: any suggestions?
    At this point ‘still subtle’ we say well…I’m not an expert but maybe
    if you ………….and then ………………that could work…AND IT
    DOES and the important thing happened we taught someone a better
    way. (the world is sensitive… measure words carefully)

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