Death Perception

shutterstock_40665385“Depth perception” can be defined as “the ability to perceive things and their spatial relationship in three dimensions.”

Death perception, on the other hand, can be defined as the ability to perceive things and their spiritual relationship in three dimensions. What are those three dimensions? Heaven, Hell, and Purgatory. Someone who has death perception sees all the events of this life in terms of the next.

One who has just begun using his death perception skills fears going to Hell, as he has recently abandoned a life of sin. Such a person might weigh the material benefits of a potential course of action along with the eternal consequences. For example, “If I go to that party, I’ll get to have some drinks and meet people.” However, the potential dangers soon emerge. “But I do have trouble controlling myself after drinking; I can‘t seem to stop. If I go to that party, I’ll likely get drunk and end up doing many things I’ll regret for eternity in Hell.”

As someone advances in the spiritual life, fear of punishment is gradually replaced by love of God. Thoughts of Hell change to thoughts of Purgatory, and eventually thoughts of Purgatory change to thoughts of Heaven. After a while, it’s no longer a question of getting away with doing one’s own will as much as possible, but trying to do what is most pleasing to God. Penances that were once tolerated like broccoli become as pleasant as the best dessert, and the possibility of punishment in the next life is dwarfed by the prospect of a higher place in Heaven.

Someone whose thoughts are filled with heavenly realities has surrendered himself to God to the point that the following words of Saint Therese (1873-1897) apply to him. “The further you advance, the fewer combats you will have, or rather, the easier will your conquests be, because you will look at the good side of things. Your soul will then rise above creatures.” All created goods are then seen in light of the Uncreated Good: God.

If this mindset seems foreign to you, stop to think about your own death. No matter how healthy or wealthy you may be, there will come a day when you are not only not as healthy or wealthy, but completely lacking both of these goods. Saint Augustine (354-430) tells us that “Death alone is certain. All other goods or evils are uncertain.”

Saint Alphonsus Liguori (1696-1787) continues this line of thought in Preparation for Death:

In every age, houses, streets, and cities are filled with new people, and the former ones are carried out to be enclosed in the tomb…so will the time come when neither I, nor you, nor anyone now living, will exist any longer on this earth…We shall then all be in eternity, which will be for us either an eternal day of delights or an eternal night of torments. There is no middle way; it is certain and of faith that one or the other lot will be ours.

We come to fully realize our lot through death, which is the threshold of eternity. The fact that death is the highway all must travel is obvious, yet we are so adept at ignoring it. In her autobiography, Story of a Soul, Saint Therese explained the importance of meditating on death. She was thankful her family had moved away from their house at Alencon because of the worldliness found among the people there:

I consider it a great grace not to have remained at Alencon. The friends we had there were too worldly; they knew too well how to ally the joys of this earth to the service of God. They didn’t think about death enough, and yet death had paid its visit to a good number of those whom I knew–the young, the rich…

Even those who encounter the death of a loved one pretend they themselves are somehow exempt from the reality, that they will live here forever. Nonetheless, as a child Saint Therese already knew better, taking her own mother’s death as very instructive on what to expect from this life. She looked beyond this world into eternity, and spent her life here preparing for that life which will never end.

This is how the saints lived, and this is how we should live as well — acknowledging death not as something theoretical or only for other people, but for ourselves. We then see things here in light of eternity, which is the only thing that matters, absolutely speaking. Saint Alphonsus tells us that

It is not necessary to be rich in this world, to gain the esteem of others, to lead a life of ease…it is only necessary to love God and to do His will. For this single end He created us, for this He preserves our life; and thus only can we gain admittance into Heaven.

The choice is ours. If we so desire, we can hone our death perception skills by retreating for a time from the demands of this world and focusing on the demands of the next. We should do so on a yearly retreat, but also daily in a less lengthy and dramatic way. This is done by setting aside printed or electronic media and replacing them with meditation and prayer. By doing this on a daily basis, we receive the grace to see things for what they really are, which means seeing them in light of eternity.

Those television shows, concerts, and vacations will lose their luster, replaced by appreciation for prayer and the Sacraments. Hell will make an appearance, then Purgatory, and eventually Heaven. Our whole focus will become knowing, loving, and serving God in this life in order to be happy with Him in the next. This is the true happiness that is full and lasting, and while it doesn’t reach its pinnacle until Heaven, it is foreshadowed here through sanctifying grace.

In Genesis 3, the serpent tempts Eve by claiming she won’t die if she disobeys God. We are continually tempted more subtly to believe that we will not die, that life here is all there is. Those who fall prey to this temptation end up committing the most sin. By contrast, those who best use their death perception skills commit the least sin, and instead grow in virtue. In Ecclesiasticus 7:40 we are told, “In all thy works remember thy last end, and thou shalt never sin.” This is nothing other than death perception, which is readily available to us all. 

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In addition to assembling Finding True Happiness, Trent Beattie is the author of Scruples and Sainthood and the editor for Saint Alphonsus Liguori for Every Day. He lives in Seattle, Washington.

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  • JMC

    I think this tendency to ignore death, to think oneself immune to it, is behind today’s practice of shielding children from that primary fact of life as long as possible. I’ve met six- and seven-year-olds who still didn’t fully understand what it was. I contrast this with my own upbringing: When I was six and in the first grade, we were taught about the afterlife in a manner that took for granted that we already knew what death was, and fully understood the concept. When I was eight, my third-grade reader told the story of a town subjected to a terrible flood. It spoke of evacuation, of life in a shelter, and, upon their return, the fact that some people had been killed in the flood. All unthinkable subjects today. Today a kid goes through the death of a loved one, and he’s immediately subjected to counseling. After 9/11, some schools even made it mandatory. Personally, I prefer the Mexican approach: It’s a fact of life, part of the cycle of life. On the Day of the Dead, they actually have picnics in cemeteries, in order to include their dear departed at least spiritually in the festivity. That’s an idea that gives most Americans the creeps. Personally, I’ve never understood the fear people have of even just walking past a cemetery, much less having a picnic in one.

  • Peter Nyikos

    There is a Pulitzer-prize winning book written by a psychologist, Ernest Becker, aptly titled “The Denial of Death”. One of the many eye-opening things he writes is that Sigmund Freud knew he could not cure his patients of fear of death, so he blamed many of its bad effects on a fear of sex, which he knew he could overcome. Freud also minimized its importance by putting more emphasis on a “death wish” which he hypothesized to be widespread.

  • Richard III

    So death is certain, but taxes are not? :-D

  • Richard III

    I don’t find the idea of walking past or picnicking in a cemetery to be that freaky either. My parents taught me and my siblings all about the Next World when we were little, and I attended my first funeral (for a maternal great-grandmother) when I was 4. Admittedly, I didn’t really know what was going on, but I wasn’t at all freaked out.

  • NYCFiredog

    M. Scott Peck wrote in The Road Less Travelled, how the fear and avoidance of death was such a contribution to an unhappy life. When Hugo Chavez, the most powerful man in Venezuela, the man who could have anyone arrested including judges that disagreed with him, and could shut down newspapers and TV stations that opposed him, when in the act of dying, whispered, “Please don’t let me die.” “I don’t want to die.” What a scary time, the moments before you face your Judge, and all the evil you have done. Death leads to Heaven, Hell or purgatory. Live accordingly.

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