Dating & Singles

Maybe you’ve heard the term thrown around at your Newman Center. Maybe you read about it in your bible study. Maybe someone used it as their reason for breaking up with you. Emotional chastity, emotional purity, emotional integrity, emotional virtue,…

The Atlantic magazine has an article arguing that online dating is undermining monogamy. Further undermining it, we should say, because the sexual mores that have devastated marriage go back four or five decades. But the writer makes a good case…

Not Waving But Drowning

by Lauren Enk on December 13, 2012 · 2 comments

British author Stevie Smith (1902-1971) once penned a striking poem called “Not Waving But Drowning.” The poem retells a real-life incident in which a man swimming at a beach began to drown; when his friends on the shore saw him…

A few weeks ago my editor here at 4 Marks asked me to "write about the role physical attraction plays in choosing a spouse." At first it seemed like a fun break from writing more serious articles. Then it hit…

Does Money Matter?

by Mary Beth Bonacci January 21, 2008

So, if a woman is looking for a man with money, is she a practical minded mother-to-be or a gold digging shrew?
First of all, I always hesitate to speak for "women." I can speak from my own experience, and…

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Is Beauty Only Skin Deep?

by Laraine Bennett January 12, 2008

A young doctoral candidate defending her dissertation on how preschool children make friendships was asked whether attractiveness was a factor. She wanted to say, "Of course not!" But instead she had a flashback to the first question that she and…

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Holiday Squabbles

by Laraine Bennett December 24, 2007

You have heard the old saying, "opposites attract." This is often quite true in the case of opposite temperaments. The fun-loving, people-oriented, outgoing sanguine may find himself irresistibly drawn to a deeply introspective, highly organized, and thoughtful melancholic. A dynamic,…

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True Friendship in the Modern World

by Catholic Match December 14, 2007

"A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature." – Ralph Waldo Emerson
"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies."
–Aristotle, Nichomachean Ethics
  "No longer do I call you servants… but I have called you friends,…

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Holy Saturday Dating

by J. Michael Paul October 31, 2007

Which day of Holy Week do you think best describes your dating life? Is it Palm Sunday, Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday or Easter Sunday? Some people find that special person right away. For six months to two years,…

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Single and On Patrol

by J. Michael Paul October 24, 2007

There are some advantages to being single with no children of your own. In the evenings, one can wander around town for hours, imbibe in excellent food and drink (of course with moderation) and simply hang out and observe life.…

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