Jesus, Our First and Truest Valentine

February 13th, 2010 by Katherine Andes Print This Article Print This Article ·

I am the coordinator of our 24-hour Adoration Chapel at our parish. A couple of years ago, I put a notice in our bulletin that said, "On Valentine’s Day there will be a basket in the Adoration Chapel. Please have your children bring a Valentine to Jesus. This is a beautiful way to introduce your children to our chapel."

Then I had a friend make a big red Valentine box, and we placed it in front of the Blessed Sacrament in our chapel. We also placed a heart shaped pink note pad with red pens nearby.

And I wondered if many children would bring Valentines to Jesus.

Ohmigosh! Did they come! By the end of the day, the basket was brimming with Valentines and not just to Jesus, but to Mary and the angels and the saints!

Some of the parish school children or CCD classes must have come by. Their Valentines were more elaborate and carefully decorated.

But my favorite was one that simply said, "Be my Valentine, Jesus. I hope I see you some time. My name is Michelle."

I could relate to her childlike notion to tell God Almighty her name: Hello, Jesus. It’s me. Kathy. Remember?

I was surprised to see that many, many adults scrawled Valentines on the notepaper. Most thanked Jesus for his blessings or requested a favor.

Some left money. Like a $10 bill.

Why do people want to write a Valentine to Jesus? Especially grownups?

Perhaps it’s because it reminds us of who is our first and truest love. And the better we love Him, the better we can love others.

Our Chapel Valentine basket has now become a cherished tradition in our parish.

[Editor's note: if you like, please leave a Valentine's Day love note to Jesus in the comboxes.]

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Katherine Andes is the co-author with Matt Pinto of Friendly Defenders Catholic Flash Cards. She is also a freelance writer for business communications, advertising, and grants. You can write her at katherineandes@hotmail.com or visit her web site at KatherineAndes.com.




  • jmtfh

    Dearest Lord,

    I need a hug from you today,

    With all my love, each and every day.

  • RoodAwakening

    Dear Jesus, thank you for loving all of us–even those of Your people who have forgotten that February 14 is STILL Saint Valentine’s feast day. In Your endless love and mercy You didn’t kick Valentine out of heaven just because the Church revised its calendar to emphasize Saints Cyril and Methodius’ work for Your Kingdom on this day, instead, so by Your grace, he still retains his title (“Saint”), and his feast day. In his reflection of Your great love, Saint Valentine is humble and charitable to thus share this day with his brothers. Please help us to follow his example of sacrifice, humility, and charity as we struggle to live out our own imperfect love for You.

  • dkpalaska

    Dear Jesus,

    Thank you for being my best, first and truest valentine – even when, in my broken nature, I forget to ask you. Thank you for your patience with me. Please help me to keep growing in your love and forgiveness.

    In Your Name,
    me