Rom 12:5-16 / Lk 14:15-24

For quite a few years now, a familiar theme in more thoughtful publications has been what is described as “the decline of civility.” It touches upon every aspect of life, whether it be on the highway or on television or in debates in the halls of congress. In word and deed, people are oft times stunningly aggressive, outrageously insulting, and incomprehensibly insensitive to the feelings and needs of others. It’s not the whole story of our early twenty-first century society, but it’s a major strand that ought not to be ignored.

Jesus summed up a radically different vision of what society should be in his Golden Rule: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” And St. Paul, in today’s first reading, fleshes out a particularly pertinent element of this: “Anticipate each other in showing respect.” That idea of anticipating others’ needs certainly turns the table from the “grab what you can” model of living. And there’s a kind of pleasure in escaping the prison of one’s self and one’s hasty dash to the next whatever.

Take the time, usually just a few seconds are needed, to anticipate your neighbor’s need of the moment, which is mainly just to be treated like a valuable human being, and respond as your heart dictates. It’s remarkable how something so simple can change a day and a life.